Makes me so mad!!

[PinkPokaDots]

Just my luck....all I've ever wanted is to be a mom. My husband and I have been TTC for almost a year, I miscarried at 5 weeks last month. I'm so sad I'm not pregnant yet, and so discouraged that my best friends and everyone around me, and everyone on facebook is announcing that they are expecting. So....now one of my recently divorced single friends is late for her period, and is describing pregnancy sysmptoms to me, so I'm excited for her!! Told her to test. So she is planning to come over to my house tomorrow for Christmas, and is going to test at my house. Well here is the kicker, she told me if she is pregnant, she will have to abort the baby. , I am totally against abortion...but it's not my place to say anything. But this friend knows what I have been going through trying to become a mommy, and how badly I want to be pregnant..I just don't know how I'm going to react if/when she gets her tomorrow, right in front of me. Oh my goodness..

 

[HelenJane]

I think that's quiet insensitive of your friend. She isn't thinking about you here at all. I don't know what to say. I would probably say nothing on the day and try to get through it as best you can, just try not to think about it or get too involved. Hugs for you

 

[Dill]

I'm sorry for your loss. It's hard, I know.

Does your friend know what you went through?

 

[PinkPokaDots]

Yes she is aware of everything...so funny thing. She decided to go get wasted at a nightclub last night...instead of coming to my house to test. So she still doesn't know if she is prego. I however...got my BFP Christmas Morning!!! Surprise!! Here is to hoping this one is a sticky bean, I am 4+5 today

 

[Dill]

She sounds like a bit of a mess. I'm sorry she's being so selfish.

But, on the flip side, CONGRATULATIONS! So exciting!!!