24 - fidget ISNT engaged! She said its not necessary to be fully engaged for labour to start and Im not to worry! MW been (obviously lol), cervix is 75% effaced, and very soft (get with that EPO girls its working here!!) She has put me down on paper as 1cm dilated, but said it was very easy to put a finger tip in and Im more than 1cm. She has performed a gentle sweep due to the bleed she said she didnt want to go too deep, but said it was easy to reach and lots has changed since a week ago, so hopefully will go on my own. She was able to feel the membrane and head but said she could move his head so he isnt fully engaged, but no matter. Fingers crossed now, thats my last antenatal appt, I either go on my own or I go in on Wednesday... arghh scary! lol