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Great scans ladies:thumbup: Lucky, hope you get off your restrictions after the 3 weeks!

Brandi, you really do need a bed, your poor back:hugs: and that is one impressive bump!

Hopeful, yep hunger is normal, tends to come and go, thats so cute about your hubby getting so excited!

Lisa, did you find the source of the poo smell? I often smell it round here :rofl: The heat wave has been tough too, I really hope you're right and it cools this weekend.

New, sorry you're not feeling better, good that you get another 2 weeks and meds though, and its lovely that Joshua is being so well mannered.

I seem to have the morning sickness back again for a visit, hopefully wont last long though, baby just making themselves known:winkwink:
 
So i watched a birthing video today for the first time ever, i nearly died/puked/went into hyperventilation. I've never seen such a disgusting/horrific/traumaitizing thing in my entire life. I am more terrified now than before. I don't know how that can happen. And how do people not get vaginal rejuvination after to get everything tight and normal again, I mean i know they say it goes back but no way it goes totally back. I am not trying to offend anyone at all, but i know some other people have to admit watching a birth video is not a pleasant experience.

As for your kegel topic, none of you did them before pregnancy?
Since i learned how much better they make sex, so I started doing them years ago.
 
I never got into the habit with kegels before (and yep... mentioning them just now was the first time i've thought of them since our talk yesterday, :dohh:)

And I was totally fine watching my first birthing video in college during my human sexuality class..... until they did the episiotomy and I had to put my head between my knees because I was going to faint/puke.
I think there is a difference afterwards, but its not going to be very noticable to your partner once you're healed up.
There HAS to be some kind of difference though because mooncups come in 2 different sizes... one for women who haven't had a kid yet and one for women who have.
 
Ok I had never heard of an episiotomy before this forum, now i know what it is. great to know (whomp whomp)

Its just seriously terrifying to me, i know as long as u have drugs you're good, i just don't want to lose my pretty little lady hahaha and everything to get all stretched and icky
 
well... its better than getting a c-section! The lady bits are MEANT to heal up and go back together... its been happening to women for generations!!

and glad we could enlighten you on episiotomies! :haha:

And mummy - I never found the poo smell... it disappeared SO abruptly that there is no way it was someone's food and must have somehow been poo? :shrug:
Still dealing with my stinky fridge at home too :( I miss ice cubes especially on hot days like we've had this past week.
 
have u tried these?
https://www.armhammer.com/fridgefresh/

ya, i know its better, because vaginal hurts during & a few days after vs weeks after w/c-section...
god all i want is some effin pumpkin pie and whipped cream, i keep forgetting to pick a pie up every time im out
 
Hopeful :hugs: Why would you scare yourself like that lol, I'v never watched a childbirth video in my life! It does go back to normal though, and hubby will vouch for that, actually I have found it goes tighter:blush:

As for peeing, I personally have not done a big gush of pee while pregnant, Im constantly in the restroom though so doubt there would be anything to gush, a pantyliner is helpful though. Kegels totally work, I do 10 fast squeeze and holds then one big squeeze and hold for the full 10 seconds, easy to remember as its 10 and 10:thumbup:

Post pregnancy, I usually find I lose the urge to pee, so end up going hours before I realise and make myself go, no one told me about that one lol. Also a trampoline is NOT your friend after a baby, don't matter how great your bladder control, if you on that thing long enough you will pee :shock:
 
Mummy, I have no idea, I thought it would be a good idea to watch it and so did my husband; until after the fact.
 
lol ... thanks for the trampoline tip!! :rofl:
I like the 10 and 10 thing! otherwise I just do some random squeezes and go 'am I done?'
I have trouble holding it for a full 10... guess that means I need to work on it!

I emptied the whole fridge and freezer.. tossed anything that was questionable, wiped out both interiors... put in a new baking soda box.... and for the past week or so, I've had activated charcoal in there with some damp newspapers (per the fridge manufacturer's suggestion).
The smell is somewhere inside the fridge, can't detect it outside, but something must have dripped somewhere where I can't reach and is just recirculating. My ice is now flavored from it too as the air blows directly on the ice to chill it :(
DH can't taste it but it tastes/smells just like a dumpster :(
I'm soooo tired of it! :(
 
It's funny if i dont change my brita water out everyday i can taste the fridge and my husband thinks i am crazy.
He calls them my magical scent and taste buds, and likes to mock me because I LOVE sour cream & onion chips and he hates them and when I eat them or have them in house it's all he can smell and he starts ragging on me and asking me what happened to my magical new senses
 
I'm with mummy on this one. I mean I'm sure they're ladies who's bits are a bit loser but they probably tore substantially. I was tighter afterward, I never thought I was going to be able to get my husbands thing in completely. I started to cry, worst then losing my virginity.

My seven day work stretch starts tomorrow. So not excited for it! At least now I'm fine with people knowing I'm pregnant.
 
Lisa, I just re read that you didn't find the poo smell, I'm frustrated on your behalf!:hugs: I absolutely hate being able to smell/hear something tthen can never find out what it was:growlmad:

Lucky, I'm with you on it being painful, my husband is very well endowed and I swear it was worse than pushing out the baby getting this thing in :rofl: And even with my episiotomy I completely went back to normal so try not to worry too much about them ladies. It's good your workmates know you are pregnant but I still don't envy you all those shifts:hugs:

Hopeful, rather you than me with the movies, I always found it best to just not think where the baby was coming from:blush:

Hubby has gone out to get us Indian food and I'm so excited:happydance:

Anyone else peeing every 20 mins here? I didn't in first tri but its so bad now!
 
OMG hormones need to STOP
I'm crying like an idiot over Toy Story 3
 
Morning ladies, i've not tried to catch up yet, i'm guessing theres pages*** lol.
I got admitted to hospital for a week with my hyperemesis and stuck on a drip, and my med's upped, got to go back in 48 hours, ketones will decide if they keep me in then or if i come back home again, couldnt get online.

hope everyone ok xx
 
Aww Wild! ((hugs)) Are the meds helping now?

I've been watching some birth vids, I have to admit, its a bit scary! I keep hoping that when I'm full term I can just sneeze and bubs will come out! :haha:

Still no bump :( bubs is hiding, although when I'm at home I walk around with my jeans unzipped as it gets uncomfy, which is a start!

xxxxx
 
not doing too much hun, they didnt work last pregnancy either, infact im convinced they made it worse lol. im just glad to be home for now, bumpage will come in time, it took ages on my second, i must admit i look very pregnant and feel like a beached whale. its all popped out very quickly, my stomach muscles appear to be fluffed :))
 
Oh Wild hun :hugs: hope you dont have to stay in again!

Morning ladies!

Hopeful you are braver than me to watch those movies lol I just turned up and did as I was told lol If it helps, I slept through Joshua's labour, was woken to push, and out he popped.. simples lol (thats how I like to remember it anyway ha ha ha) I did sleep through most of it though lol And even though I needed to go into theatre after Joshua was born for a retained placenta I was still up and walking and pain free within hours. The womans body is built for this job and I do think if you do all your exercises after the birth everything does go back tighter! I did chuckle at mummys trampoline comment though :haha: joys of parenthood eh hun lol

Lisa I hope you find the smell in the fridge, are you sure its not your nose being over sensitive? Maybe its a normal fridge smell that you are adverse to and so smelling it like something minging where before you got pregnant you didnt even notice it???

Lucky I hope you get better news at your next scan, but taking it easy isnt a bad thing hun. Glad baby is doing well :) And everyone else who had scans :) Lisa your sonographers comments do sound like you might be having a boy, not to long to wait until you find out :) Bet all you ladies over the pond will be finding out the genders very soon... here in the UK we have to wait till passed 20 weeks arghhhh lol I'll be 20wk 3 days hehe I was tempted to go private as a gender scan is only £50, BUT when I phoned for an appointment they said they couldnt do a gender scan unless Id had my 20wk anomaly scan as it wouldnt be ethically right (guess thats for people who change their mind, or for hospitals that dont tell you) so Id have to have a fetal well being scan which costs £150... seems a lot to pay when I could wait just a few more weeks and get the same scan for free, especally as I want to pay for a 4D scan in the new year :)
 
Cheree, I like a lot of different books, Lots of psychological thrillers, sci fi, fantasy. Up to try anything and the longer the book/series the better as I read super fast:blush:

If you like fantasy, you might like the Wheel of Time (Robert Jordan) - it is currently 14 books including the prequel. Like I have mentioned before, this series is very descriptive and, especially in books 6-10, gets a little tedious. That being said, I've enjoyed my return to the series. These fantasy books I would only recommend to fantasy fans, whereas my fantasy book recommendations below, I would recommend to anyone.

I confess, my favorite fantasy series is the Song of Ice and Fire by George RR Martin. This series is coming out as an HBO series in April 2011, which I am so excited about. It is different than traditional fantasy in that it really consists primarily of political intrigue and is much more adult themed than traditional fantasy (akin to the Tudors or Rome if you watched either of those series). I have to warn you that the series is not finished and the author is SLOW in writing. In fact, I seriously doubt he will finish the series.

The other fantasy series that I love, love, love is the discworld series by Terry Pratchett. This series is many, many books long (I think 30+). They are short, witty reads and I really enjoy the break they provide. This is a British author, who lends a quirky, fun humor to his books. There are several sub-stories focused on key inhabitants of the discworld. I like the witches and DEATH best, but the night guards' story line is great too. I have been reading them in the order they came out, but you can also read them by story line (e.g. read all of the witches books first), since they can all be thought of a stand alone stories. There is a sub-series in the books (around the witches) that focus on a young witch called Tiffany Aching that would be fun to share with your kids.

The other fantasy book that I will mention is To Say Nothing of the Dog by Connie Willis - one of my favorites of all time. It is a funny book that is more of a love story/historical fiction than fantasy, but it is fantastic.

If you are at all interested in historical fiction, my favorite series of all time is the Lymond Chronicles by Dorothy Dunnett. She was absolutely brilliant. These books took me a good long while to get through as they are very dense (they are NOT multi-tasking books where you can be looking on the computer, watching TV and reading at the same time). It took me a while to get into these books, but once I did, I couldn't stop. I read only Dorothy Dunnett books exclusively for 2 years in graduate school (there is another series called the House of Niccolo and a stand alone book called King Hereafter, which is about MacBeth).

As far as thrillers, I don't read too many of these, but I may have a couple of books that might qualify... I read the book Blindness by Jose Saramago when it came out in 1998 - it floored me. I didn't see the recent movie and I would not recommend seeing the movie. The book is graphic and disturbing. The author chose not to give his characters names (I think) to lessen the impact of some of the acts that occur in the book. Giving the characters a face (in the movie), I think was crazy - it shouldn't have been made. I highly recommend the book. Not only is the story amazing, but the style is so unique and wonderful. It reads a little like a Kerouac book in the style (obviously they are nothing alike in storyline) - almost a stream of consciousness that sort of becomes part of you - fantastic!

The other book I might recommend is more of a murder mystery, but it really makes you think like a thriller does...It is called An Instance of a Fingerpost by Iain Pears. It might also be classified as a historical fiction (which is my favorite genre). This is a story repeated 4 times by each of the 4 main characters. You don't find out 'whodunit' until the end of the 4 points of view.

I hope this gives you some ideas! I read a ton (and also read fast), so I am always looking for the next good read!
 
Hi all -

I've been so busy at work this week - I've had no time to get online and post here! It was great to see the wonderful scans ladies. I have my 12 week genetic screen next week so I will get a scan too!

Wild - I am so sorry that you have been in the hospital. I hope you get to stay home now and start feeling better!

Wiggler - so, how was it???? I still haven't finished my reread of the Gathering Storm, so I haven't gotten the new book yet. I hope to finish this week, so I can get reading the new book!
 
Yep new, I actually cringe whenever I see a trampoline:haha:

Wild I'm so sorry you have been in hospital,hope you feel better soon:hugs:

Cheree I think I'm going to look for the wheel of time books:thumbup: I read all of the lord of the rings books + the hobbit within 2 days so I'm a fast reader too lol. With thrillers I like Jonathon Kellerman and Patricia Cornwall although I guess a lot of people find them too gruesome!
 

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