***May Blossoms Due Dates Join Here**47 Babies Born!***

[sequeena]

Well if I'd OV'd as normal AF would have been due today... she's not here thank god and I'm constipated which is GOOD. However it's only just gone 7am so she's got all day I'm ringing my doctor at 8am and hopefully I'll get an appointment for 9am xx

 

[cheekybint]

Hi ladies, looks like I won't be joining you after all Blood results came back today with zero HCG

Happy and healthy 9 months to you all xxxxxxx

 

[Crissie]

Awwww so sorry to hear that. Hope you will be joining the June group soon.

 

[sequeena]

Saw my doctor and I put myself in the pregnancy book. The midwife will pick it up on Thursday (damn!! Missed her by one day!) and then ring me either at the end of next week or the beginning of the week after.

I went to the toilet afterwards, wiped no blood but checked my cervix (as usual) and came out with a load of cm and brown blood.... started worrying, saw the physio with OH (his back his hurting - he had a crash in 2007), went to Morrisons and checked again. Wiped a bit more pink this time, checked cervix same again. FREAKING OUT.

Just got home, wiped nothing, nothing inside either but my temperature is sky high. I didn't even need a thermometer as my finger was scorching!!

So I don't know how much longer I'll be here. I'm going to cling on until the very end. How cruel though, I'll have to go through the embarrassment of ringing the doctors and asking them to take me off the list. It's not fair

 

[new_to_ttc]

Sequeena hun, try and relax and let your body do what it needs to do. FX'd all will be ok, its natural to be worried on AF Dday but today will pass and tomorrow you will be officially late

Cheeky so sorry about your blood results hun, FX'd and lots of you get your BFP really soon xxxxxx

May I have a rant? Feel free to switch off.... Had a phone call from Joshua's school today, he is a very good and exceptionally bright child, but he has been recently lying. There has been an on going incident at school this week, which I believed my son over the school to the point I wrote in a formal complaint about the handling of the situation, and it turns out my son had been lying to me all along (was a major incident). Then in finding out this revelation the school inform me off other similar behaviours occuring at school that they have never told me about and informed me he is boasting at school about ringing 999 from his mobile about kids in the park... checked his phone and he has been!!! Arghhhhh The stuff I found out today I just dont know how to handle. There is a meeting at school today, mainly re the major incident, and for me to suck lemons, but also to try and find out what has created this sudden change in behaviour. Ive also contacted the police and asked them to speak to Joshua, (he is only 7 and cant be held responsible for what happened at school.. but I want it dealt with). The police are coming to see him Monday, so I hope that scares him into reality, plus I asked his karate coach (who is absolutely idolises) to have a word. Me nor the school cant seem to break through to him. He has no idea Im pregnant... I dont know if telling him now would help the situation??? Being a big brother is all he wants. I dont know if my constant sleepiness and sickiness is causing him to be a nightmare, he isnt getting the same attention at home (although he I am trying to keep everything normal). He's apparently told the school Im hiding fruit in boxes and he has to find them if he wants to eat it... he is going to land me in trouble I dont know what to do for the best, he's a boistrous little thing but he is kind, polite and good.. I just dont understand it Goes without saying computer, phone, wii, ds etc etc etc all gone.. will also disconnect his Sky tv but it makes no odds with him. He has always valued everything he has and we do some of the things the teachers spoke about just sounded like a stranger to me not my boy Anyway.. sorry for ranting... I just dont need the stress, and I dont have the energy for it. Meeting in half an hour at the school, then karate coach will speak with him tonight and the police after the weekend on Monday. I hope its enough to make him see how serious lying is.

 

[sequeena]

Thank you hun I can't wait for tomorrow to come xxx

So sorry for this added stress hun

 

[new_to_ttc]

Im nearly 9 weeks and every time I go to the bathroom I wipe and close my eyes and then check for blood... I am sure ts a natural reaction, but the worry does get less as each day ticks on!! Tomorrow will be here in no time

And thank you! I really could be doing without it... off to see the head teacher now, and of course withdraw my formal complaint arghhhh kids!!! lolol ... remind me why Im going through it again

 

[24/7]

Hope it goes ok with the school new. xx

 

[sequeena]

Im nearly 9 weeks and every time I go to the bathroom I wipe and close my eyes and then check for blood... I am sure ts a natural reaction, but the worry does get less as each day ticks on!! Tomorrow will be here in no time

And thank you! I really could be doing without it... off to see the head teacher now, and of course withdraw my formal complaint arghhhh kids!!! lolol ... remind me why Im going through it again

I have NO idea hun Good luck!

 

[lisaf]

ttc - I think you're already off at school, but my DH apparently as a child told one huge whopper of a lie. He trashed the bathroom at school and when caught, told them some big kids made him do it. It turned into this huge investigation, they thought there were teenagers coming on campus and making kids do things/hurting them etc... Went on for WEEKS... then they found out he was just lying.
I guess I'm trying to say its rather normal at that age, and there isn't always a reason for it. As for sticking up for your kid? Nothing wrong with that as long as you don't keep doing it once you have proof he's been lying about it all.
Hope it all went ok!

 

[pleasebeaboy]

My due date was changed to may 12...had first us today

 

[luckyme225]

cheeky- so sorry

sequeena- the brown was old blood, probably due to implantation. After the second time you checked your cm might have been pink because you checked your cervix earlier. Your cervix is much more sensitive during pregnancy, it's easier to spot if poked or prodded (like from sex lol). Try and relax hun.

new to ttc- I'm sorry your going throw this. It was normal to stick up for your child unless proven otherwise.

 

[sequeena]

Thanks luckyme xx

Just been to the loo again and it was more old blood... oh why won't it stop I know old blood is ok but it's doing my nut in

 

[ttcfurrever]

New- I have no advice. I just hope everything gets worked out sooner than later

Cheeky- lots of . I hope you'll get your BFP very soon.

 

[mumov3]

Hi ladies can i be added to the list my due date upto now is the 27th ov may!! Wishin u all a h&h 9mths xx

 

[meow951]

new to ttc- Perhaps it's just a phase? I've never had kids but you do hear of kids going through phases at certain ages, just like when toddlers go through the tantrum stage etc.

I think the police is a good idea and especially the karate teacher if he really looks up to him. I have always looked up to my mum and the thought of her being disappointed in me actually made me feel awful. When i was 15 i dabbled in drugs a bit and when she found out she didn't scream and ground me, she told me she was disappointed in me. It really shocked me and i never did it again. But it only works if the child looks up to the person as joshua does to his karate teacher.

I'm dreading things like this with my children! I'll probably follow my mums advice lol Me and my sister haven't exactly been angels and we've both turned out well behaved etc and i honestly believe it's down to how she brought us up and handled situations like this.

Sorry for the rambling lol

 

[lisaf]

Hey meow, how and when are we voting on a banner? Are we going to do another poll? When do submissions need to be in?

 

[new_to_ttc]

Im back from school, Joshua didnt seem to get the importance, but the head teacher is a bit of a pain too lol She is a bit soft and didnt seem to drum it into him, but Ive drummed it in now and he WILL listen, one way or another I'll sort it, because he is a good kid (and Im not beng bias lol). Onthe up note, he started violin lessons today in school... brought his first ever violin home and I was prepared for a dead cat noise for the big showcase... and he played me 2 tunes from sheet music!!!! Arghhh gets me so frustrated he is sooo bright and intelligent, it makes no sense of these silly (and big) lies! Least the violin thing might not be tooo hard to cope with lol

Soooooo all you first time mums... here is an insight to the next 7 or 8 years hehehe Enjoy every moment lol

Edit for meow's post, ty hun, Im sure it is just a phase but I want to nip it in the bud now before it grows. I hope Joshua looks up to me, but right now he thinks he is sooooo grown up when really he's not so mummy is just the pain who sets the law lol We've always been close, and Im sure in a few years when he understands life more we'll be closer still he's just at the 'finding his own feet' stage bless him! I turned out ok, and if I do half as good parenting as my parents did for me then I know Joshua will turn out ok too, thats why Im getting the help to keep him on the straight and narrow

 

[yeahbetty]

You can add me for on or around May 16.

 

[lisaf]

Lol, well my DH was an adorable kid and still told that big fat lie and he turned out ok too...
I think he got away with the lie for so long because he WAS such a sweet/innocent kid and never got in trouble etc...