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[Wiggler]

Haha Wild, i dont think so seeing as he was just moaning to me (he didnt mean it though) and 24/7 you are sooo lucky! OH is helping me more now, he can see how tired i'm getting and i know once i get a bump and things get harder to do he will do most things i cant. Bless him though, he has taken over most of the cooking because i dont like the kitchen anymore (the cat litter tray is in there, yuk!)

Still no hint of a bump, or even bloat

 

[24/7]

I don't really have anything yet either, my stomach is hard, but you can't notice it atall. But I am very underweight so hopefully my bump will stay nice and small, or I may just topple over!!

 

[Wiggler]

My tummy is soft and squishy where i put on a ton of weight with the implant, but that weight is starting to come off and i finally have a waist again!!! I didnt get a "proper" bump (just looked like i had a large lunch) with DS until i was 6-7 months gone so i really really want one soon.

 

[Wudluvanuva1]

Yey just got a call from the mw at 7.30 pm lol
Got my booking appointment a week today & i will get my 12 wk scan date then so excited x

Also i don't have a bump buddy sob sob so if anyone else doesn't & would like to be mine msg me x

 

[pinkclaire]

You guys are so lucky! I've been up at 5 all week due to James and my hubby hasn't helped at all. Everytime I've tried to have a nap he's woke me up and when I try to say I'm really tired he says don't use the Pregnancy card your barely pregnant. Hmmm. This is why women carry babies! Xx

 

[hopefulmama]

I am with you PINKCLAIRE. My husband says the same thing. We were at the park walking around, enjoying the day and out of nowhere I got dizzy and nauseated and wanted to go home ASAP and he responded with the pregnancy nonsense being an excuse to be lazy.

I wish for one day he could understand how tired you are and how you might feel good one sec and horrible the next. He also says it about my cravings, that I am using pregnancy as an excuse to eat junk. Today got us into a bit of a fight.

 

[Wiggler]

Men eh? OH wasnt too believing of my nausea and tiredness when i was pregnant with DS until i made him eat in another room and sleep on the sofa! (the smell of his food made me gag and he made the bed too hot) after that he became a lot more caring.

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[hopefulmama]

Yea I don't get their issues nor their attitude. You'd think they'd be super attentive and understanding but instead, opposite. It's really upsetting me. I don't think my hormones help this out at all, but a little sentiment would do go a long way.

 

[Wiggler]

I'm sure things will get better soon, it takes longer for the whole pregnancy thing to sink in for men than it does for us.

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[wild2011]

that comment saying barely pregnant made my blood boil lol. this is the worst stage of pregnancy bar the last bit wen everything is an up hill struggle, grrrr my dh has been like that in the past, men grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr x

 

[hopefulmama]

Yea it put me into hysterics and i just started screaming and he says " don't take out all your hormonal problems on me for making a statement," that made me more upset so i just came to our bedroom with my dogs and put my feet up and locked the door, also brought all the remotes with me

 

[wild2011]

hahaha girl power, it'll get easier, lots of us been thru it before this time round my dh knows better than to bother


chin up hun xx

 

[Wiggler]

 

[luckyme225]

Well ladies, last night I started spotting. It was dark burgundy and brown. There was quite a lot when a wiped but amazingly only a tiny bit of brown showed on the panty liner when I woke up. I've had no spotting or cramps today so now I have to sit and wait. Got a bunch of blood work and urine test this morning. Probably a visit with the nurse tomorrow, then more blood work Saturday. This waiting crap sucks. Expecting then worse but hoping my little baby sticks!!

 

[hopefulmama]

LUCKYME- I am sure everything is ok, will be thinking of you!
what did the dr say when you were there this AM?

 

[wild2011]

Well ladies, last night I started spotting. It was dark burgundy and brown. There was quite a lot when a wiped but amazingly only a tiny bit of brown showed on the panty liner when I woke up. I've had no spotting or cramps today so now I have to sit and wait. Got a bunch of blood work and urine test this morning. Probably a visit with the nurse tomorrow, then more blood work Saturday. This waiting crap sucks. Expecting then worse but hoping my little baby sticks!!

good luck hun, thinking of u

 

[luckyme225]

LUCKYME- I am sure everything is ok, will be thinking of you!
what did the dr say when you were there this AM?

Thanks. They just sent me to the sent me to the lab for a workup. The Nurse said she'd call the on call doc and see what she wants, so basically they told me a whole lot of nothing. I'm supposed to have a visit tomorrow morning I guess.

 

[lisaf]

new - glad you had such a good appointment!
lucky - sorry to hear you're spotting. FX'd... lots of women spot and everything turns out just fine, its not always a bad sign, but always scary when it happens

hopeful - OMG you had me busting up when you added that you took the remotes with you!!! My DH would kill me if I did that! I've threatened to steal all the cables to his game systems before and he got super pissy at just the idea of me threatening that!
My DH has been very good overall and very considerate and taken care of me... but he's getting tired of it and has said so which makes me sad.
There are things like he wants me to clean up the animal's puke, which will make me puke... so he does it but whines, then makes me shampoo the rugs. He complained that he's been in charge of dinner for too many nights now.
He also keeps making jokes about how I should deal with the yucky stuff like animal puke because I'm going to throw up anyway... um NO... I ONLY throw up if I deal with that stuff!!!!! GRRRR!
He bought fishy catfood and told me to just hold my breath! It was the first thing that made me puke when pregnant... had to stop buying it but he screwed up and got some...

Ok... RANT over

AFM - Had a great scan today! Picture is at the end of my journal.. we saw movement.. baby waved hi to me heart beating away just fine.
I only have 1 more appointment with my specialist at 12 weeks so I scheduled a 14 week appointment with my OB (I hope I like her!).

 

[hopefulmama]

Ugh that BS drives me nuts, the waiting and the "might be this, or might be that."
Well i know its easier said than done to say don't stress and try not to think about it.. but it's sorta true cause there is nothing you can do till you get more bloodwork in a day.

I came home to find myself spotting only when i went to the bathroom, this nude/peach color. Dr said not to worry but I am still freaking out.

 

[wild2011]

lisaf-glad your scan went well, how cute that baby waved at u