might sound pathetic

[clairebear]

my DH has just gone out to the pub. this never normally bothers me but 2 days ago he said it would be nice if went together and caught up with a few of his old mates. well ten minutes before we were due to go out he decided he was going on his own im now sat here really upset and confused. is he embaressed of me now that im putting on all this baby weight

 

[Tezzy]

aww hun..it may just be that he wants some 'guy' time... my hubby does it quite a lot, we never go to the pub together, its not because hes ashamed or embarrased of me!

i know its so hard, ive sat here many nights crying because im all alone and hes fucked off to the pub but at the end of the day he needs his space too.

 

[clairebear]

i know him normally going out doesnt bother me. i think it was beacuse he changed his mind at the last minute and i think it might be preggie hormones to xxx

 

[Always&4ever]

Try not to let it get to you honey, I had that feeling when my OH went to town, I started crying because he wanted to go on his own, turns out it was due to him wanting to get my xmas pressie, its probably due to hormones.

 

[Wobbles]

Not guy time 10 minutes before your leaving the door .... I would have to ask him what that was about tbh! Not very nice from this direction.

And your bump is special not fat or weight etc ... BABY x

 

[babybels71]

I can relate to that also, my hormones have been all over the place!!!

 

[hypnorm]

Bit insensitive of him changing his mind 10 mins before! i would have said Tuff i'm ready so i'm coming with you!!

 

[babybels71]

Men can be so insensitive sometimes. Grrrrr......lol

 

[clairebear]

yeah stupid men. glad i didnt go in the end as i fell asleep on sofa which was very nice and relaxing xx

 

[Linzi]

I dont think their heads are screwed on properly sometimes.

When he comes home just say something like 'Well you better buy me something nice to make up for it now!'. Usually works for me
xxx

 

[Tam]

I would throw a right wobbler if Paul did that to me.........that is not on! x

 

[cutie_wutie]

I've been exactly the same at the moment... hormones it must be as it never normally bothers me but i think cuz im preg and fat as i say i think hes ashamed of the way i look