Milky CM (tmi)

[Flowerweed]

Hey*there!*I'm*a*little*confused*and*have*been*googling*my*butt*off*trying*to*figure*this*out*lol.*Me*and*my*partner*went*for*home*artificial*insemination*as*we*are*a*lesbian*couple.*Now*I*have*had*checks,*swabs*and*blood*tests*and*so*has*the*donor.*After*the*insemination,*a*couple*of*days*laterI*noticed*a*bleachy*smelling*discharge*and*alot*of*it.*My*breasts*are*tender*but*I*have*not*had*any*other*symptoms*or*signs*that*you*would*entale*with*being*pregnant.*I*have*8*days*left*before*I*am*due*to*start*my*period*so*have*to*wait*then*until*I*can*do*a*test.*We*have*been*monitoring*my*ovulation*time*and*my*LH*surge*etc*and*I*know*that*we*should*have*hit*the*nail*on*the*head*on*the*right*days.**takes*a*deep*breath**what*I*am*concerned*about*is*this*bleachy*smell,*it*is*White*in*colour*but*it*is*not*bleaching*my*underwear. I could only describe it's appearance as milk and lots of it, *it's*just*not*normal*for*me*lol.*Please*help**gets*on*knees***

 

[wanabeamama]

hey i usually get that just after ovulation couple of days after or so the bleach cm sometimes it does bleach my underwwear eeewwwww altho i didnt get it before i had the spermy and its seems to be when there has been some action so maby its semen mixed with cm takes a few days to leave the body this probibly wasnt much help but atleast you know your not the onlyone with this xx good luck how many dpo are you x

 

[Flowerweed]

Hey, that is a little bit of releif to be honest and thank you for replying. I was AI at home on the 15th and 17th of this month and I OV on the 18th. 2 days after I ovulated it has just got more and more. I am going to the toilet a hell of alot more and my breasts are very tender and sore. Normally when I am due AF my chest is only a little tender for about 3 days. This has gone on since the 20th and my stomach has been a little swollen and I have been eating LOADS. Maybe it is all on my head because I (we) want a child so much, but hey. Only have to wait till Monday or Tuesday to find out if AF will arrive as I am always like clockwork

Thank you so much again for your reply, I love this forum it is such a godsend to people like myself.

Tash xxxxx

 

[wanabeamama]

awwww i have my fingers crossed for you both is this your first cycle??? Ive been having the same symptoms sore bbs heartburn bloated going to the toilet and i was spotting for 3days but appart from the spotting i had all those symptoms last cycle so feeling a little low
i really hope this is your month it sounds like you have some promising symptoms so i have my fingers crossed for you

 

[Flowerweed]

Yup yup this is my first cycle trying. I don't know if it is too early to test but I got a 'Not Pregnant' on the clearblue this morning. Bloody hormones boooo :,( xxx

 

[wanabeamama]

Yup yup this is my first cycle trying. I don't know if it is too early to test but I got a 'Not Pregnant' on the clearblue this morning. Bloody hormones boooo :,( xxx

the digital tests are not at all sensitive you can get a pack of 25 super sensitive early pg tests from amazon they come next day too only problem is im tempted to test every day but probibly no chane till after at least 10 dpo.
Good look

 

[Flowerweed]

Just realised that the tests I bought are 1 year out of date!!!?!!?!?! How stupid. I don't know if it makes any difference to be honest, so I have journeyed out to boots and now waiting till I need the toilet again lol. Good luck to you too xxxx

 

[wanabeamama]

thank you good luck fmu has the most hcg in it so save one for the morning ooooooo how exciting xxxxfingers crossed for you

 

[Sophe]

Hey, i guess as you don't usually sleep with males its new to you, I think thats normal though, i've noticed since we've stopped using condoms i have a lot more stuff down there, think the semen mixes in with the CM and makes some other type of CM that comes out... TMI sorry! I know! but i never had this when DH & I used condoms, if i wasn't trying to conceive i would def use them as I hate all that.

Buy and early pregnancy test... it will tell you on the box how early you can use it...

two week wait is the worst

GL & FX'd for you

 

[RedStar57]

I have a lot more creamy cm too, but like everyone said it started after unprotected sex. I agree with you sophe... when we werent trying I was on the pill and we used condoms! It's yucky stuff lol.. But I can deal with it until I get my bfp then it's back to condoms! hehe.

Also, Good luck and fingers crossed for you flower!!!!

 

[Flowerweed]

Thank you all so much. Dreams have just been crushed as I have done 2 tests today and none are positive. Looks like back to the drawing board for next month after my periods are here. Good luck to everyone for their tests results

also may I thank you all for your support

Tash x

 

[wanabeamama]

Thank you all so much. Dreams have just been crushed as I have done 2 tests today and none are positive. Looks like back to the drawing board for next month after my periods are here. Good luck to everyone for their tests results

also may I thank you all for your support

Tash x

when is your af due??? Some people dont get a pos test till after af is due so your not out until the witch arrives xxx

 

[Flowerweed]

She is meant to be here tomorrow! I don't really have any signs that she is coming like I usually do. This whole TTC is so frustrating lol x

 

[wanabeamama]

She is meant to be here tomorrow! I don't really have any signs that she is coming like I usually do. This whole TTC is so frustrating lol x

tell me about it lol we have been ttc for almost a year and it doesnt get any easier nothing seems to take your mind off it
i really hope its good news for you do you have a sensitive test to use tomorrow?

 

[Flowerweed]

Nopes i don't lol. Have spent so much money on these tests so far and we have a cat that is due her first litter any day....AND we have just bought a house which we are meant to get the keys for in 9 days from today. Oh the stresses and joys of everyday lol. I just laugh at it all, because I'll cry if I don't lol. I still have alot of CM that is milky, my stomach is still swollen an I've been having night sweats. I am 27 so it's not the change lol. *sigh*

1 year is a very long time, I take it you have been to your doctors to see what other options are available? Xxxx

 

[wanabeamama]

Nopes i don't lol. Have spent so much money on these tests so far and we have a cat that is due her first litter any day....AND we have just bought a house which we are meant to get the keys for in 9 days from today. Oh the stresses and joys of everyday lol. I just laugh at it all, because I'll cry if I don't lol. I still have alot of CM that is milky, my stomach is still swollen an I've been having night sweats. I am 27 so it's not the change lol. *sigh*

1 year is a very long time, I take it you have been to your doctors to see what other options are available? Xxxx

yeah i had a laproscopy in feb they found i had a 12cm cyst on my left ovary and lots of endometriosis didnt know i had it till then so since the lap it my seccond cycle but as the endo does come back its a bit of a race to get pg before it does added stress.

Sounds like you have alot going on at the mo lol i really hope the witch doesnt show tomorrow fingers crossed x

 

[Flowerweed]

Awwww damn that would be rather stressful! I truly hope your dreams come true. I always find that those who don't want kids fall pregnant at the drop of a hat whereas people like us who really want it tend to take AGES! Pah! Life is like a box of chocolates lol xxxx

 

[wanabeamama]

any sighn of the witch???? I had her in a headlock last night and told her to stay away then she beat me with her broom and flew off into the night so hopfully she will stay away hahaha ill be thinking of you today hope its good news x

 

[Flowerweed]

Hey hey! Well no sign of the cow yet, but last night I had the worst cramps I've ever had to endure. It felt like she was coming because it was that AF feeling but no sign today. Feel really tired and BBs are killing me, maybe she is holding off for a major appearance just to really hack me off lol. Next time you have her in a headlock poke her in the eyes LOL xxxx

 

[wanabeamama]

pfpffhahahahahah i will poke her in the eyes lol ive been having af like cramps too and sore bbs kept me awake last night but af isnt due till thursday :/ hmmmm stupid cow she bettr not show her ugly face with thet nasty wart shes got on the end of her big green nose lol
fingers crossed x