Miscarriage thread. For those of you who suffered and are suffering

Thank you so much for your understanding rachjim98 *Hugs*

And your perfectly right, I for one feel like me and my bean have been written off already. Hoping something more permanent can be created soon to suit everyone.

In the meantime I'm not sure how to rename a thread... I think only Zoey can do that and I'm sure she'd be more then happy to since it was originally made to send good luck and prayers for some of the members xx
 
I'm sure if the issue is pushed they will come up with some place less stressful for everyone involved.
It's upseting because you ladies are already going through enough and to have to come to the saddest section on this forum for support, when your babies are still alive is just to much!! :cry:

Again if there is anything we can do we are all here to help anyway we can, and best of luck to you all!!
Rach
 
On the other hand, I just need to say, that I also feel guilty posting on the miscarriage and loss board because my baby IS alive still. I don't feel welcome in either place, although I do know that everyone has the best intentions and feelings at heart.

I think if we could have something in any section and maybe call it, "Potential loss", something like that. It's just so hard, for me I have a baby with a lethal issue, prognosis is extremely grim. There are so many tests and procedures that come from a "potential loss" that I had so many questions and not sure who or where to ask. Even something like an amnio, in a healthy "older" pregnancy, that person would have a lot of questions, considering the increased risk of miscarriage.

I think this is a brilliant thread and am thankful that we can talk openly about it. I remember when I was first pregnant I wouldn't look at any post even related to loss on the 1st tri board, so I totally see where that feeling comes from as well.

I hope we have a solution that can fit us all.

Love to everyone.
 
I just notice on the forum list page... theres a 'BnB groups' section.

Maybe that would be good for anyone wishing to talk and give support on potential loss or new pregnancies with prior pregnancy complications??

I'm sorry you've been moved, I see it's a rock or a hard place... so I'm only making this further suggestion to try and help :)

Sending you all lots of love for healthy sticky beans x
 
I think the mods do it.

But you could start afresh and be minus this whole debate :)

:friends:
 
For anyone that has been following whats going on with me, I lost my baby x
 
https://www.babyandbump.com/bnb-groups/133597-hopes-fears-high-risk-pregnancys.html#post2136013

I have created the following group in the lounge though as it's still important to have a middle place and as seraphim said, its fresh and new without the debate xx
 
For anyone that has been following whats going on with me, I lost my baby x

Honey i didnt know!!! I am so sorry for your loss.

I hope you are well considering the horrible situation.

If you want to talk I am here - I have suffered my first loss back in December.

Lots of love and hugs

Alex
 
im sorry honey i have followed you for a while i lost my baby nearly 3 weeks ago the 2 mc in 4 months and i agree ther should be somewhere to go to i felt i couldnt go to any forum as not to upset someone till it was over and for 5 days i was so scared i couldnt even tell my hubby as not to upset him if it was nothing and the day it happened i was on my own and my heart was breaking so yes we need somewhere and please message me if you want to talk im here for you xxxx
 

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