Miscarried first pregnancy.

Owo

I found it a great comfort just knowing that I wasn't the only one in the world going through such a horrible time. Its a great shame its taken something like this to meet such lovely ppl.

It will get better in time. Just take each day as it comes.. cry on the days you feel sad, smile on the better days.

:hug:

Kerryx
 
You Girls are just wonderful.
Thankyou, you are a great help.
:hugs:
 
you dont sound horrible at all darling, i felt exactly the same*

you will get that baby and it will be so worth all the heartache*
 
Thanks for your kind words.
I was 10 weeks. What made it worse was that i always knew that miscarriage is a high risk in the first trimester, but at 10 weeks i was starting to feel really positive that everything was going to be ok. I was told that it had stopped growing at 6 weeks. I understand that most occur then as it is a critical stage of development. It just took four weeks to miscarry.

Hi, I really feel for you...I had a similar situation as I m/c at nearly 12wks, but the baby had stopped growing at 7.5wks. I was starting to believe we were safe and had no idea that anything was wrong during that time. I know its really hard for you now, but things will get better. We planted a little tree in our garden which gave us some comfort, a reminder that our little one wont be forgotton. Take care, give yourselves time and look after yourself. sending you lots of :hug:
 
Sorry for you loss. I know exactly how you feel. I m/c two weeks ago and for me. I passed the little one the day before going to the hospital for the confirmation scan. I couldn't bring myself to flush it down the toliet. I looked int he net for this kind of thing and it say on many sites that you should take anything to the hopsital for them to analyse it, so I did.

Being two weeks on, I am now feeling better and had two days in a row now without crying. We are desparate to try again but don't want to feel that I am just replacing what I lost. xx
 
How are you today OWO?:hugs:

I am doing better today. I'm starting to feel more positive. My bleeding has almost stopped just some light spotting, which has surprised me as i would have thought it would last longer than a week. It is a week today that i started bleeding red blood.
I'm not saying that i am not expecting anymore sad days, but today has so far been a good one for me.
I hope that you are all doing ok today also.
Thanks
xx
 
Hi OWO,

So sorry for your loss I to miscarried last year went along for my dating scan and was told the baby had stopped growing at 7.5 weeks :cry:

Just take each day as it comes sending you lots of :hug:
x x x
 
Thinking of you. I found my little one was dead on Sunday. I've not been able to think straight since then. I'm glad I didn't get any further annd then find out, but now waiting for the bleeding to start and feeling deadful. My first pregnancy too, but I've been desperate for a baby for three years.
Niki xxxx
 
Hi Owo,
I understand exactly how you feel, I found out at my 13 week scan that my LO died at 11 weeks, and it was truely devastating. Like you I thought I was home safe and moving on to my 2nd trimester, It was also my first pregnancy.
It's now 3 weeks on and I'm feeling much better I am through the worst of it, I am constantly thinking about and missing my lost one but I'm looking to the future now and I understand it has happened for a reason and my fingers and toes are crossed that next time will be successful.
Sending you big :hug: cry when you need to, you'll have good days and bad days, just take it all in your stide. :hugs:
 
NikkiJJones how are you doing? It's such a shock when you find out isn't it.
I can't believe how many first pregnancies fail. Since miscarrying i have heard lots of people tell me that they lost their first and they now have large families. I'm sure we will all be successful next time.
Thinking of you all
xx
 
Hello owo,
I'm doing better today than yesterday. I hope each day gets a bit better for all of us. I started bleeding today, but only lightly. I just want this all to be over with and out of me, so that I can try to get on with life.
How are you doing today?
Niki xxxx
 
I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Last year I found out at 9 weeks that I'd had a missed m/c and the baby had stopped growing at 7 weeks. It really does take time to get over it. My hubby and I are pregnant again (found out last week) and I'm only 5 weeks so I'm pretty scared that it'll all happen again. My GP told me that 1 in 3 end in miscarriage, which aren't nice odds at all, but we're hoping for the best this time round.

Wishing you all the best.x.
 
I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Last year I found out at 9 weeks that I'd had a missed m/c and the baby had stopped growing at 7 weeks. It really does take time to get over it. My hubby and I are pregnant again (found out last week) and I'm only 5 weeks so I'm pretty scared that it'll all happen again. My GP told me that 1 in 3 end in miscarriage, which aren't nice odds at all, but we're hoping for the best this time round.

Wishing you all the best.x.

I'm sorry that you had to go through a miscarriage.
I'm so pleased to hear that you are pregnant again. My fingers are crossed that this one will be successful.
:hugs:
 
I am so sorry for your loss Owo...... I to lost my 1st pregnancy I was 7+4 when I started bleeding and had my complete mc 2 days later.......I have finished bleeding and there was only 1 nite that I had pain and that was last Thursday the day it was confirmed that I had mc.......all I can say is we get pregnant once we can do it again and, that one will be a sticky bean for all of us.............thinking of you and send you :hugs::hugs::hug::hugs::hugs:
 

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