Just wanted to share my stories to give more insight...
Thinking of you also. I am also currently going through a miscarriage. I had a miscarriage in the fall of 2017 when we weren't actively trying to conceive. I passed this one naturally, I started spotting in the afternoon of day 1, and passed the baby in the afternoon of day 2. I had bleeding for 7-10 days after. My cycle returned right on time & back to normal. We decided to start trying for baby #2 in April - fell pregnant the first month. I started having significant cramping over the weekend and went in to the doctor at 6 weeks 3 days. Per ultrasound, a sac was present, nothing further, but everything was "breaking apart" with significant bleeding noted in my uterus. The doctor gave us the choice of passing it naturally or a d&c. We opted for the d&c at this time. With me not even bleeding yet, and my cervix still being closed, it could have taken me weeks to pass it, and for my mental & emotional well being I could not do that. I had the d&c yesterday afternoon. I will be honest, it was not bad at all. Quick procedure, minimal bleeding already by yesterday evening. Having been through both, I would choose a d&c over ever wanting to pass it naturally again. For me it is all about my emotional stability. The thought of waiting for days, maybe weeks I just couldn't wrap my head around it.
My thoughts & prayers are with you. I feel your pain, and remember to lean on your husband/significant other & family for support. You are not alone in this.
