Mm...

[LOZANDEVIE]

Is it wrong of me to miss a males company, I just miss spending time with someone, whilst Lillies asleep i have nothing to do and it just makes me think. I've done everything to try and take my mind off it, washing,bottles,steraliser,cleaning..sorting out her stuff, but im still thinking about it... I just miss company i guess, male company... Anyone else... or is it just me and the day im having.

 

[teal]

Sending you hugs

I personally don't miss it - for the time being it seems so much easier just being me and my baby boy xx

 

[LOZANDEVIE]

Thankyou. It is so much easier me and my daughter, but i feel lonely at times. I try and take my mind off it the best i can though. I'm always in a good mood but today just seems like im thinking too much xx

 

[teal]

Maybe it's just one of those days. I hope you're feeling better about things tomorrow xx

 

[Pyrrhic]

hun.

Sometimes I feel lonely, especially as I don't have family to talk to, or the internet at home to come on here. I wouldn't say I miss male company though. The idea of being with a bloke scares the life out of me right now. I don't want the pressure and the stress.

I understand where you are coming from though. The nights are the hardest.

 

[Laura2919]

When I was a single mum I missed it too sometimes. I think its a common thing hun.

 

[Mincholada]

i don't think it's wrong to miss it.

my little girl isn't here yet and i'm not even halftime through pregnancy, but i soooooo miss to be held every now and then or get a kiss or whatsoever

i never thought i'd go through this, one of the most exciting times of life, by myself. hate sleeping in my kingsize bed by myself and hate thinking about how it's gonna be without male company for the next year or two or.... i just wish there would be someone to lovingly touch my bump and kiss it and then hold me tight...

for me it all adds up. i'm not only missing male company. i miss company in general. moved to the states from germany all by myself 17 months ago and here in south florida it is hard to find friends. i only have one girlfriend, but since she's married and we both work different schedules, we hardly do things together. other than that there are a couple of coworkers i can share some thoughts with, but never meet them outside of work.

no family down here, no nothing. i work 85% late evenings, til 1-3 AM. if i'll ever be able to sort out child care once my girl is here, i'll certainly won't have money to get extra baby sitting nor time to go on a date or two.

makes me wanna whack FOB in the head for acting so selfishly and stupid and letting me go through this on my own (although i broke up with him when i found out all the lies and BS he'd been telling me).

 

[LOZANDEVIE]

 

[xJG30]

I used to feel like that all the time, It doesn't matter whether you have a baby or not, Everyone will miss having company at some point.

 

[bloodbinds]

Personally i don't miss it at all!!

A man to nag, a man to leave rubbish around, or not but the butter back in the fridge, or to snore really loudly or to put his dirty feet on the coffee table or to fart and burp and NEVER do the washing up.

Nope! Don't miss it at all!! Lol.

xx

 

[shiawase]

I dont miss having a man around all the time but i miss the attention if that makes sense!

 

[LittleMadam]

I miss a pair of strong arms to hold me and do the heavy lifting/fixing around the house. Most of all though, I miss the sex!

 

[spencerbear]

I miss it too sometimes

 

[Surreal]

Personally i don't miss it at all!!

A man to nag, a man to leave rubbish around, or not but the butter back in the fridge, or to snore really loudly or to put his dirty feet on the coffee table or to fart and burp and NEVER do the washing up.

Nope! Don't miss it at all!! Lol.

xx

QFT! Or, to get jealous of your attention to your baby, *or* the fact that without a partner? You don't have share /any/ of those sweet little moments between you 'n baby, with anyone else. Or to get upset and abandon you, when baby is crying. -.-

Maybe it's getting out of an emotionally abusive relationship that's made me okay with not having a man in my life... or, just my inner cynic screaming that their a waste of space, anyways.

I only need one man in my life! ... And he's not born yet.