Hello, I'm just thinking of how it felt last time after giving birth and wondering how it will be having to look after 4 year old as well. I'm not living with my partner anymore (he's not allowed to come back since the police removed him for being abusive) So now totally unexpectedly going though this alone after all OUR plans. But that's ok its for the best, now I can relax emotionally, he needs help and I cant help him.
I'm planning a home birth so my daughter will be there the whole time and I'm just wondering how I'm going to cope looking after 2 and being exhausted from labour and breastfeeding and minimal sleep. Grandparents are most likely going to be good support but unfortunately I don't have much extra space in my house for them to stay very comfortably and I live a bit away from them too.
So anyway, how did you cope with your second arrival? How hard was it to adjust and when did you stop needing help from partner, family etc?
I'm planning a home birth so my daughter will be there the whole time and I'm just wondering how I'm going to cope looking after 2 and being exhausted from labour and breastfeeding and minimal sleep. Grandparents are most likely going to be good support but unfortunately I don't have much extra space in my house for them to stay very comfortably and I live a bit away from them too.
So anyway, how did you cope with your second arrival? How hard was it to adjust and when did you stop needing help from partner, family etc?