Mothers!

[Luhweez]

So, is anyone elses mum being really controlling and trying to take over? Talking as if its HER baby and being an absolute bitch to you because you didn't finish your dinner or are being sick feeling ill?
My mums being the biggest bitch in the world to me because i've been sick nearly everynight this week, and when im not feeling very good its all because i dont eat right or i dont do this or i dont do that!
And at my antenatal appointment last week doctor said that bubs is small, her head measures 34 weeks whereas her tummy measures 32 weeks but her organs and bones are perfect etc they just want to keep an eye because im quite petite usually they think she might not have enough room to grow any bigger inside me, and suddenly thats all my fault! even though the doctor said its nothing to worry about women have small babies everyday! i mean seriously wtf does she want me to do?? and my brothers just the same and started giving off to me because i told him i wont be staying here when our parents go on holiday because all he does is stress me out and give me shit.

really needed to rant im sorry.

 

[kayley_baby]

bless ya! happy to say i dont have that kind of trouble but at the same time im only 10 weeks so... Dont know much about my baby yet but seems a bit daft your getting blamed for your baby being small when that is not anything to do with you (in a way)

 

[nikky0907]

Moms have a very tough time understanding and accepting the fact that their little girls are now-moms.

You need to explain her that you'll always need her for support and you'll always need her help,no matter what age.But you are gonna be a mother now and you need to do this on your own.

Obviously,you are not to blame for having a small baby,this is ridiculous and not very fair that she accused you of it.

 

[pennysbored]

She's probably scared herself, with her baby having a baby. I'm 28 and I still get this from my mom sometimes.

 

[Serene123]

I have had to tell my mum where to stick her fussing a few times.. In a polite way of course! If I'm old enough to have a baby I'm old enough to look after her.

 

[jchaney85]

my cousin is having the same problem with her mom and everytime her mom doesnt get her way she calls the child people on her (my cousin) even though she is doing nothing wrong some moms are just crazy like that and you just need to tell them and show them that you can take control and do it yourself and that your not scared though to ask for help.

 

[xXDonnaXx]

It's not my mum, it's OH's mum. Argh. Do not like her!!!

I can just imagine what she's going too be like. Commenting on everything I do with LO. I'm going too explode!!!

 

[Blob]

My mums been pretty decent really just lets me get on with everything Hope she gets better soon, def think you just need to have a chat with her.. Luck!!

 

[Serene123]

Caitlyns dads mum is a complete nightmare. She thinks she knows everything. She said I'm unstable because I wouldn't take Caitlyn to southend to see Richs grandad when she was 3 weeks old. ASIF. Eurghh, talking about her makes me mad. Just ignore your mum, it's your baby.

 

[nellis10]

Hunnie if it's any consolation when I was pregnant at 32, my mum was exactly the same!! I had a small baby....a scan showed a 2 week difference between head and tummy and he was born 6lb 2oz. But absolutely perfect in everyway!

I really think that your mum has both you and the babies best interests at heart and is just trying (perhaps not successfully) to show you that she cares and just wants you and the baby to be healthy!

Just concentrate on you, and try to eat as healthily as possible...nausea permitting, and get as much rest as possible.

Hope all goes well in the next few weeks!!

 

[KatienSam]

I get this off my mum, she is going to be a bloody nightmare! I will tell her where to stick it and she is not allowed to my house without letting me know! She is booking time off work when i've had the baby despite me saying my OH and I want time alone with baby for first few weeks! she just continued with her 'and i wil have the baby for the day whilst you and sam catch up on sleep' no way! I know she is only trying to look out for me but she is in for a real shock when baby arrives!