Thanks everyone, I kind of brushed it off- it was all happening and had to be strong etc etc. it's when I look back or someone asks that it makes me think sh**, it really was serious. Our HV rang me as a follow up she wants to see Ellie, so I'm going to mention doc to her again. Yes symptoms are vague, but everyone who I spoke to about blood said it needs investigating, and was his attitude really. Nothing will be done and I don't want the hassle iygwim of it going further, I'd just like to see him again and say you know what, you were wrong.