motherofboys
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My Mum and Dad split up when I was 2. My Dad went into the Navy and we didn't see much of him. We couldnt even garentee if he would bother turning up when he told us he would during leave. All contact stopped when I was 8. I traced him when I was 18. I discovered that a lot of the things my Mum had said were true. The man is a pompous arse LOL
We maintained contact through email and would get a visit from him 2-3 times a year.
The last time I saw him I was heavily pregnant with my 3rd baby in January 2010. We carried on emailing but he never actually met my youngest.
Back in June last year I got locked out of my email account. I couldnt email him. He has facebook but does not have a picture on there and there are quite a few people with the same name and no picture. But he knows I have facebook as his told me in the past that he checked it. I didnt have his number or address as he moved shortly before I was locked out of my emails and I never wrote the new details down. He did have my number though.
So he had a few ways to contact me and I had none to contact him.
Anyway I just managed to get into my old email account and I have searched right back to June last year and I never had even 1 email from him.
I'm not sure if now I am back in that account if I should email him and explain what happened or if I should just leave it as he could have contacted me, even if I had had 1 email since the last one I sent him then I could have thought he was waiting for my response but I have had nothing.
I don't know if I should just think 'oh well its his loss, its not like we got on or I'm missing out on anything'
We maintained contact through email and would get a visit from him 2-3 times a year.
The last time I saw him I was heavily pregnant with my 3rd baby in January 2010. We carried on emailing but he never actually met my youngest.
Back in June last year I got locked out of my email account. I couldnt email him. He has facebook but does not have a picture on there and there are quite a few people with the same name and no picture. But he knows I have facebook as his told me in the past that he checked it. I didnt have his number or address as he moved shortly before I was locked out of my emails and I never wrote the new details down. He did have my number though.
So he had a few ways to contact me and I had none to contact him.
Anyway I just managed to get into my old email account and I have searched right back to June last year and I never had even 1 email from him.
I'm not sure if now I am back in that account if I should email him and explain what happened or if I should just leave it as he could have contacted me, even if I had had 1 email since the last one I sent him then I could have thought he was waiting for my response but I have had nothing.
I don't know if I should just think 'oh well its his loss, its not like we got on or I'm missing out on anything'