My doctor just called.....

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So as the title says my doctor just called....... They tested my fetus, they found trisomy 15 which in english, is the same idea as downs, but on a different chromosone. So instead of having two 15 chromosones there was three. My doctor said they pretty much always end in miscarriage, and if they dont its a fatal outcome. But because of my OH's chromosonal abnormalities we have a higher chance of this. He then went on to say it was a boy :cry:

Have yet to tell OH, he isnt home from work yet. He already feels so bad about having his abnormalities, and feeling it was his fault. Gotta step carefully i guess.

Thanks for reading ladies. :hug:
 
:hugs: Thinking of you huni. I'm glad that you got some answers but sorry that you had to go through all of this :hugs:
 
so sorry hun but glad you got answers as to why you lost your little boy. i hope dh takes it as well as he can though am sure he will blame himself even more. :hug: x
 
thanks ladies :hugs: i hope he takes it ok too.... as well as he can :(
 
Oh I am so sorry. I sure do hope that your husband realizes that this is completely out of his control. He didn't ask to be born with his abnormalities just as your little one had no control. I do hope he doesn't blame himself.

My thoughts are with you.

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thank you ladies, so talked to OH, he just kept apologizing:cry:, he does understand that its not his fault but i think its hard for him because he thinks it wouldnt have happened if it werent for him.
I thought i was doing so good working through this then you get a phone call and your world shatters all over again. Thank you for listening ladies :hug:
 
So sorry you guys are going through this parkep :hugs:
 
Thank you so much ladies, :hugs: it is getting easier
 

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