saharablue02
Husband and Dog-Dakota
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We had my best friend from college over the other night and grilled dinner, had some wine, etc...
His phone kept beeping so I opened it to turn the stinking thing off and saw a text from one of his old HS friends Kim. And it was about having babies...whether we were going to or not soon like all his other friends (there's like 12 of his HS buddies having kids right now)
So of course I read the others and his replies and he said things a long the lines of "never having kids," "seriously-too selfish right now," "not having anytime soon"
And I got upset but told myself I was not going to start a huge argument over it bc I told him I would not bring babies up for a little while...to give us a chance to be us-that's why I am here LOL Venting to everyone else!
I told him I didn't appreciate the "never" comments but left it at that...ERRRR. I wonder if anytime soon means around June next year?!?
No but seriously; I am trying to be understanding but sometimes I just want to pin him down and
His phone kept beeping so I opened it to turn the stinking thing off and saw a text from one of his old HS friends Kim. And it was about having babies...whether we were going to or not soon like all his other friends (there's like 12 of his HS buddies having kids right now)
So of course I read the others and his replies and he said things a long the lines of "never having kids," "seriously-too selfish right now," "not having anytime soon"
And I got upset but told myself I was not going to start a huge argument over it bc I told him I would not bring babies up for a little while...to give us a chance to be us-that's why I am here LOL Venting to everyone else!
I told him I didn't appreciate the "never" comments but left it at that...ERRRR. I wonder if anytime soon means around June next year?!?
No but seriously; I am trying to be understanding but sometimes I just want to pin him down and