Maxparedesmom
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my story... at 19 weeks and 3 days i went to a ultrasound where they check to make sure everything is ok and growing right.we found out he was a boy and heart his beautiful heart beat.due to the position of my baby i was asked to come back to get a few better pic of his face and a few other things .on this day the doctor again said he was a boy and we again heard his heart beat ..two days later i have a normal doctor ap where they measure ur stomach and use a doplor to listen to the heart beat.as the doctor puts the dopler on my stomach and moves it around she cant find him.this didnt alarm us at first cuz it happend at my last ap since my baby moved so much she couldnt get a good heart beat sound.so she decides to grab the ultrasound machine and uses it .as she uses it and is looking at the screen she turns and looks at me and says "im sorry i dont see any movement and theres no heat beat....i was so devistated,i was alone and didnt know how i was going to tell my husband.i called him crying and had to ask him to pick me up and take me to the hospital where i had to get a more accurate result.i didnt want to tell him over the phone so i just told him to come get me ..we get to the hospital where the doctor doesnt allow me to have my husband come with me ..so again i have to hear from the doctor that i had lost my baby boy that his heart just stopped beating...i get a call from my doctor who askes me what i wanted to do ..in my eyes i only saw one option witch was to give birth to my precious baby..12/19/12 i go to the hospital to be induced ...i was in labor for over 24 hours with the most horrible experience ever..its pretty bad and graffic so i wont write it..for finally 12/20/12 at 556 am weighting 7.2 oz and 10 inch long .we named him Max..after giving birth my horrible male doctor sets my baby on a small sergical table covers him up with a dirty rag and leaves the room...i was so upset by the way this doctor treated me and my son..just because my son was no longer with us did not give him the right to just leave him like that ..we held our beautiful baby boy for 4 hours before we had to give him up..its the hardest thing iv ever had to do ..i left the hospital after being put in the sergical recovery section instead of with the other mothers even though i asked them to treat me like a normal
delivery..i left with nothing ..it was so heart breaking..the loss is so hard to get threw ..no one ever explains to u what happens to ur body after or how u will still have to deal with ur milk coming in ..all this happened to happen 4 days before my bf and i had arranged our marriage...we still got married but it was a really emotional day..the hurt never gets easier every day is hard...i try to get threw every day one day at a time and be a mother to my 14 month old son...
delivery..i left with nothing ..it was so heart breaking..the loss is so hard to get threw ..no one ever explains to u what happens to ur body after or how u will still have to deal with ur milk coming in ..all this happened to happen 4 days before my bf and i had arranged our marriage...we still got married but it was a really emotional day..the hurt never gets easier every day is hard...i try to get threw every day one day at a time and be a mother to my 14 month old son...