Nakedness!

LoraLoo

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So, ive always been comfortable being naked around my kids, and vice versa. The kids are often running around the house and garden naked (it's private and not overlooked) ... The younger ones still bath with me sometimes, I dress in front of them... You get the picture.

My eldest is 16 this year and its a long time since we've seen her naked! There just came a time, probably when she was around 10, when she wanted more privacy and that was a 2 way thing.

The problem in my son. He's coming up 12, and he is at the stage where he wants privacy... However he is not respecting mine at all.

He will just walk into my bedroom. I sleep naked! It's boiling tonight so I'm laid on the bed with a vest top on but no bottoms and legs on top of duvet.

He just comes in, no knocking. I quickly try and pu duvet over bottom half and say ollie I have no clothes on, please don't just walk in, but he just carries on the conversation, not the least bit bothered! This happens on a regular basis.

Anyone else had this? Any advice?
 
My 11 (12 in august) boy is the same. He covers himself up but constantly just walks in my room or the bathroom!
 
Are you bothered about being naked in front of him or just bothered that he's bothered about being naked in front of you?
If he's not bothered about you being naked then I would just carry on. But if you are bothered then I would explain to him about respecting privacy goes both ways
 
Have you sat down to have a conversation about it? Or have you just reacted in the moment?
 

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