Mamafy
Mum to 5 & Angel Mum to 4
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well first I'm gonna let this out
right thats better now
So we've been using the naughty step with Joe hes a great boy, rarely naughty at all but he does lash out at his little sister so this is where the naughty step is brought in. It has worked very very well I have to say....or so we thought
Yesterday I was making dinner and was leaving the room (it has a gate on it, all their toys in it) his big sister was watching him and Katie. I went to leave and it was a full blown tantrum Then he kicks Katie So I put him on the step, tell him why hes on the step, tell him you'll be on the step for nearly 3 minutes and will come off when you're calm and have said sorry. So we wait...and we wait. Times up I say:
"right Joe you can come off the step once you say sorry to your sister and give her a big hug and give mummy a hug, so are you ready to say sorry"
Joe says
"not yet"
so 3 more minutes passed and we done the same again and again I got the same answer
the child stayed on the naughty step for 34 minutes he was calm, he just didnt feel ready to say sorry I nearly peed myself but that would have sorta defeated the purpose
right thats better now
So we've been using the naughty step with Joe hes a great boy, rarely naughty at all but he does lash out at his little sister so this is where the naughty step is brought in. It has worked very very well I have to say....or so we thought
Yesterday I was making dinner and was leaving the room (it has a gate on it, all their toys in it) his big sister was watching him and Katie. I went to leave and it was a full blown tantrum Then he kicks Katie So I put him on the step, tell him why hes on the step, tell him you'll be on the step for nearly 3 minutes and will come off when you're calm and have said sorry. So we wait...and we wait. Times up I say:
"right Joe you can come off the step once you say sorry to your sister and give her a big hug and give mummy a hug, so are you ready to say sorry"
Joe says
"not yet"
so 3 more minutes passed and we done the same again and again I got the same answer
the child stayed on the naughty step for 34 minutes he was calm, he just didnt feel ready to say sorry I nearly peed myself but that would have sorta defeated the purpose