Meezerowner
Mum of twin girls
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I am so near the end of my 2 year ordeal but the end is the hardest part it would appear. Like rolling a very heavy rock up a hill it gets more difficult near the summit. 
FOB has been jailed for the crime/s I reported him for and even though it needed to happen I take no pleasure from it and it's a tragedy for all involved. It made the local papers and although they can't print my name I still feel like I have been dragged through the slime and mud even though I am a victim in all this. They mentioned my children too (not by name obviously) but it still grossed me out.
I found out today it even made a small paragraph in a national paper that I know his Dad reads so if they didn't know what was going on they defo do now. He was very good at keeping "his business" (as he liked to call it) under wraps whilst masquerading as a pillar of society.
We were a week a way from selling the house which it took ~2 years to get to. What with him refusing to sell, refusing to answer solicitor letters and then just being plain obstructive at EVERY turn. We had final signed and were waiting (for him) to agree exchange. The sale will prob fall through now
. But either way I am moving out on Friday come hell or high water and I can't wait to be out of this house and leave its bad memories behind.
I just want to get this rock to the top of the hill and start living again as I feel that we have just been surviving the past 18 months. I want to be free of FOB and all that binds us.
FOB has been jailed for the crime/s I reported him for and even though it needed to happen I take no pleasure from it and it's a tragedy for all involved. It made the local papers and although they can't print my name I still feel like I have been dragged through the slime and mud even though I am a victim in all this. They mentioned my children too (not by name obviously) but it still grossed me out.
I found out today it even made a small paragraph in a national paper that I know his Dad reads so if they didn't know what was going on they defo do now. He was very good at keeping "his business" (as he liked to call it) under wraps whilst masquerading as a pillar of society.
We were a week a way from selling the house which it took ~2 years to get to. What with him refusing to sell, refusing to answer solicitor letters and then just being plain obstructive at EVERY turn. We had final signed and were waiting (for him) to agree exchange. The sale will prob fall through now
. But either way I am moving out on Friday come hell or high water and I can't wait to be out of this house and leave its bad memories behind.I just want to get this rock to the top of the hill and start living again as I feel that we have just been surviving the past 18 months. I want to be free of FOB and all that binds us.
