Nearly time to give birth and still worried

[Nikki noo]

So last year I had 3 early miscarriages and on the last try I have got 33 weeks pregnant and everything has been fine! I havnt really worried up until now as I have been concentrating on getting past each week and this last couple of days I have realised wow! I'm 33 weeks! Now I can't help but worry that this is to good to be true and somthing will go wrong during the birth, how can I have 3 miscarriages and then a normal pregnancy and healthy baby to bring home at the end. Has anyone else been through or going through this? And to all ladies, don't give up

 

[kazine]

Good luck Nikki !

Kaz x

 

[km12446]

I understand where you're coming from hun, I've had one miscarriage at 11 1/2 weeks and Im now 24 weeks but still can't help thinking something will go wrong, can't imagine myself in labour or giving birth or bringing a baby home...I dont know why I just cant visualise it! I'm a big dreamer too, always have very vivid dreams but haven't dreamt about this baby once. For some reason for me, that feels like a bad omen! Im sure we're worrying over nothing but it's hard. Hope you have some close friends/ family you can talk to xxx

 

[Nikki noo]

I understand where you're coming from hun, I've had one miscarriage at 11 1/2 weeks and Im now 24 weeks but still can't help thinking something will go wrong, can't imagine myself in labour or giving birth or bringing a baby home...I dont know why I just cant visualise it! I'm a big dreamer too, always have very vivid dreams but haven't dreamt about this baby once. For some reason for me, that feels like a bad omen! Im sure we're worrying over nothing but it's hard. Hope you have some close friends/ family you can talk to xxx

Thanks forth reply and sorry for your loss but your right I'm sure we are worrying over nothing but I also believe it's only natural. I have just taken it week by week and now here I am with 6 weeks left, I hope it goes quickly for you. This week I have been getting everything ready and I can't help but think bad thoughts and it's meant to be a happy time. I am sure we will be fine, sending you lots of happiness for the future with your little bundle. Xx

 

[momofone08]

I completely understand where you are coming from. I am 32 weeks pregnant and have had 3 losses in the last 2 1/2 years. ( I also had a loss before I had DD#1).
Although I am 32 weeks, have everything for baby, she moves and kicks etc I can't help but shake the feeling something will go wrong. I think it's normal that we are scared. We have been through tragic losses and it's a hard concept thinking our babies are coming and are okay.
I wish you and LO all the best!

 

[Viperbunny]

I can understand you being worried, but it will be okay. I think the only cure for this worry is when you finally got to hold your baby. Congratulations and good luck.