Need a hug , Infertility bug

[godskid]

hi ... I am going for my second FET in April . I tried my best to be positive after my failed FET . I tired lot of things which will occupy my mind . I downloaded lots of games , i bought books and started reading them . I was OK till last week , but i feel so down these days .I dont know if any of my friends can understand what I am going through because all what my friends (at office) talk about are about their babies. I am the only one among them suffering with a nobaby problem .
I dont know how to get out of this worrying . I fear that this stress will affect my upcoming FET . FYI i had taken lupride depot on Saturday 16 March . Can lupride cause stress?
any information or a friendly message s welcome

 

[Pinkie 33]

Hello

Sorry you are feeling so down. We are now doing our second IVF + ICSI and I know it can be really hard to stay positive. Its also very tricky to talk to friends (especially fertile ones) about how any of this process feels.

We stay hopeful by thinking of the end goal. I've come to think of this as a course of treatment rather than a one off. It helps me accept the first failure and why we are going through this again. I also have a wonderful other half so I know things will always be great, whatever happens.

Fingers crossed for you this time, I hope you feel better soon

 

[calm]

I can't answer your question as I really don't know, just wanted to give you a big

P.S. Google mindfulness to look with dealing with stress XXX

 

[godskid]

thank you dears for the hug...
I wrote the above post while i was in office. I was stressed with the FET thing and to add to it i was stuck a work . I felt that i couldn't move forward. I asked god from my heart to give me some support .i couldn't take it anymore. I was crying when i prayed
know what... I got a solution to the problem @ office in just ten minutes. Had been hanging my head on that work for days...
God proved to me once again that he is listening .

 

[Chcltbnny]

Hi!

Here's a hug for you. I know the feeling of having this issue that none of your friends can even comprehend. I am there as well whenever I have to go to a baby shower or look at my friends baby pics or get invited to birthday parties. And I know how hard it is to not stress but try - positive thinking and feeling good about yourself and situation - will only work to your benefit.

Stay strong and hugs to you!

Choc

 

[godskid]

Hey thank you Choc !!! to you too .
Feeling good about self is very good point ... thanks for pointing that out ...
Im planning to visit the spa before next FET