Need a little support today

[mommyo2girls]

Hi girls! Congrats on you all being here and I pray for healthy babies for us all! I need a little support today, I am almost 5 weeks pregnant after a loss. I am so scared that I am going to MC. I want to be happy and excited and try not to think about it. I tried and tested BFP at 9dpo. Since then I have had 6 BFP (DH told me he knows I am preggo to stop buying sticks to pee on them..lol) I am just scared and worried and need to ease my mind.

 

[Beanbabe]

Congrats on your bfp (all six of them!!). Being scared and worried is par for the course but as time goes on it does change and you get positive days as well. The best thing to do is set yourself small milestones - 1st one possibly early scan (if you are getting one) then 12 weeks, and on it goes. If you set yourself a milestone of having a baby thats an awful long time away.

Time will seem very slow now - it does get a bit faster but in the beginning it is sooooo slooooow.

Good luck.

 

[chippyslady]

Mommy,

Congrats on your BFP! I am in EXACTLY the same boat! I had an early miscarriage as well and am now a little over 5 weeks and am constantly worried that I will miscarry again. I have also taken 6 tests (all positive) and I go to the dr. on Thursday, but I am terrified she isn't going to see anything. I do hoever, keep remembering, that the best thing we can do for ourselves and for our babies is to pray, have faith and try to relax as much as possible. I know that is a lot easier said than done, but it helps me through the very worrysome times.

I agree with beanbabe compeltely - to set small milestones and celebrate those. My first milestone was to get further along than last time - check! Now it is to have a good appointment on Thursday, then a good 8 week u/s, 12 weeks and so on.

All the best to you and please keep in touch and let us know how you are doing.

 

[mommyo2girls]

Thank you girls! It is good to know I am not alone.

 

[chippyslady]

You are never alone here. Big to you!

 

[Pippasdvision]

Lol I have had blood tests at the hospital for conformation, but I still POAS at least every other day for reassurance and use a digital once or twicew a week to check my levels are not dropping. You are so not alone every time my symptoms ease I convince myself it is happening again and spend 5 min checking my tissue for any signs of pink. DH (gotta love that abreviation) is very logical, and just says why bother, if it is going to happen there is nothing anyone can do about it (helpful or what). But I just am so worried that it is going to go wrong again.