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I lost Ava 6 weeks ago at 18 weeks , Waited 6 weeks for the results only for them to tell me the cells did not grow Didn't get any answers I am blaming myself and crying, my friend called the office today and was screaming at them , that they need a doctor to call me and explain these results. The assistant was the one who called me and told me about them not growing and i called back 3x to talk with a doctor and nobody called. So my best friend called and screamed at them, 30 minutes later the doctor called me He said that the cells didn't grow but he said he was 99 percent positive it was due to a chromosomal abnormality. It was not downs or Trisomy 18. He said my Nuchal came back perfect. So I said what would cause this at 18 weeks and again he said we can't know if one of the chromosomes like 18 had a xx or 26 had an xx we just don't know, but we know it was chromosomal . He said there was no reason for me not to try again ,I said did I do something to cause this he said NO , Did you smoke crack cocaine I said NOOO he said did you shoot drugs I said NNOOOOOO he said Andrea you didn't do anything these things just happen. He said I know your 40 but your tests came back good and in my opinion there is no reason to not try again, he said he knows I am in pain and he knows it happened late in the pregnancy , but he feels it was an abnormality and it likely wont happen again. So what should I walk away from this thinking?
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