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Need help and to know if this has happened to somebody (I have nobody to talk and might go crazy)

Natallie

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Okay so this is our oficial first month of TTC (before we were NTNP but that just lasted for about 2 months). Today is supposed to be when AF comes but this is what has happend. On day 12 dpo I had cramps like AF was coming (I've had mild cramps since maybe 10 dpo) but that day I totally thought it was coming for sure because in the morning I noticed maybe 2 drops of blood and that usually happens to me when it starts very light and then gets heavier within maybe 3 hours. But it has been 2 days already and AF never came. My cycles are usualy 28-30 days (but I'm sure I ovulated on day 16 of my cycle) So definetly AF was supposed to come today and it usually comes in the morning. I had cramps until yesterday and today I've had non. I was supposed to wait until tomorrow to take a pregnancy test. But ofcourse a few hours after I woke up and hubby left for work I had to take a pregnancy test but it was negative. I didn't use morning urine and did drink coffe and water but did wait for like 2 hours before going to the restroom. PS: My period is very very regular and I have never experienced having blood flow before my period starts so this is why I was suspicious I could be pregnant.
 
Also I have been having flow that is like watery which I normally don't have before my period. Sorry that this is so long. I know I should have waited until tomorow and first morning urine so i wouldn't have any doubts ‍♀️ I have no idea why I do this to my self.
 
I would think that a negative hpt regardless of time taken at 14dpo is most likely a sign that you are not pregnant. I never had spotting with my 1st 2, but I did have some from 10 to 12 dpo with my 3rd with my first positive test at 9dpo.

My cramps that I get when pregnant are also cramps that are much more mild than AF cramps. Personally, anytime I had cramps like AF coming, I got AF.

How do you track your cycles? Bbt, opk??
 
I track them now with opk and have been tracking them with an app since years ago. But yes I guess I’ll just have to wait and see what happens
 
Ah, opks were pretty reliable for me and are for most. I hope you get an answer soon.
 
Anything yet? It's always worth a retest and witg first morning. It could just be a wonky cycle, but it could've also been just slightly too early to test especially if done midday and if urine was more diluted. What kind of test were you using? Some tests are more sensitive and could result positive earlier whereas some are less sensitive and take a bit longer to show a positive.

Hope you get an answer soon <3
 
Anything yet? It's always worth a retest and witg first morning. It could just be a wonky cycle, but it could've also been just slightly too early to test especially if done midday and if urine was more diluted. What kind of test were you using? Some tests are more sensitive and could result positive earlier whereas some are less sensitive and take a bit longer to show a positive.

Hope you get an answer soon <3
Hi!!! Yes, AF came that day but at night so we're officially on our second cycle trying. At least now I learned not to test before my period is due because if it's negative I'm still not going to believe it until AF comes I hope we have luck this cycle I started pre natal vitamins a week ago
 

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