Need Some Advice ,Please~~~

[bek74]

Well I personally don't think your to old to be trying again, it is more like do you want to try again? And only you know that answer babe. I am 37 and you know what I went through to have the twins but I knew if I didn't try I would forever regret it. You will never stop thinking about Ava, just as I haven't forgot my baby I lost. I think having another will help heal your heart and knowing you like I do, I think if you don't try, you will always wonder and will forever regret it. I hope ur not thinking of trying because your not wanting to upset your older boys because in no time at all they will have moved out. Put yourself first, you and I both know that you have longed for another baby before you fell with Ava, life is to short to put on hold. I plan on trying for another in a couple of years, when I am 39-40 and I don't think I will be too old.
You know the answer to your question, deep down you know. So my honest opinion from a long time friend who loves you, I say yes try and start now.
Love you always with all my heart xxx

Hey, your here you found me..... LOL, we are always on different parts of the forum. You have been one of my bestest friends for 6 yrs and I love you so so much And your 100% right and I know that, and I know you went to hell and back to get your babies and I remember me telling you never to give up, so why should I?
I love you, Bek, more than you know.XOXOOXOXOXO

I love you so much too my wonderful, beautiful friend In your heart you want this, you know it and I know it.
There is that part that thinks, well I have 3 wonderful sons, I am getting older so maybe it is time for Nick and myself, maybe lossing Ava was a sign it wasnt meant to be..... I DISAGREE.................
Yes you have 3 amazing sons, yes your 41 and ready to do it all over again, and lossing Ava wasn't a sign it wasn't meant to be, but a sign of how much you do want this and how much it IS MEANT TO BE....
Lossing your baby girl is an unbareable pain and one I wish I could take away for you, but please don't let it stop you from trying again.
I know how much you so desperately want to have a baby, I love you always and will always be here supporting you even if we are worlds apart, time zones apart, you will always be my friend and always in my thoughts and prayers.

Stop holding off and go for it we can be mature mothers starting over together