Rikki
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Hi everyone
I had a phone call from the hospital today, they have the results of the post mortem done on my baby who I lost at 19weeks 2 months ago, and I have an appointment with the consultant next week.
I'm a bit scared about what they are going to say. Like if they tell me not to try again, or that there is something wrong with me or there are chromosomal incompatibilities with my partner etc. I'm afraid that they might say something that will put my partner off trying.
So, I was thinking about going on my own. I don't live with my partner at the moment, but we both really want a baby together and intend to make a life with each other. Obviously I would tell them what they say afterwards, I'm not going to keep it from him, but I think I would like to digest what they say first and then tell him.
The problem is, if I tell him about the appointment he might insist on coming, and if I don't tell him he might be hurt I kept it from him.
Sorry for the long post. I don't have anyone I can talk to about this which is why I'm turning to BnB for help. Thanks.
I had a phone call from the hospital today, they have the results of the post mortem done on my baby who I lost at 19weeks 2 months ago, and I have an appointment with the consultant next week.
I'm a bit scared about what they are going to say. Like if they tell me not to try again, or that there is something wrong with me or there are chromosomal incompatibilities with my partner etc. I'm afraid that they might say something that will put my partner off trying.
So, I was thinking about going on my own. I don't live with my partner at the moment, but we both really want a baby together and intend to make a life with each other. Obviously I would tell them what they say afterwards, I'm not going to keep it from him, but I think I would like to digest what they say first and then tell him.
The problem is, if I tell him about the appointment he might insist on coming, and if I don't tell him he might be hurt I kept it from him.
Sorry for the long post. I don't have anyone I can talk to about this which is why I'm turning to BnB for help. Thanks.