Need some information re DH

[EMBY]

Okay. We just recently found out (again....3rd analysis) that DH has low count and really low morphology. Has anyone else dealt with this? And, if so, what route did you pursue?
I am feeling so sad about this. I can't even describe it.
Any help would be appreciated. Thanks.

 

[wannabmum]

Hi huni,
Sorry to hear about DH, My DH has azoospermia (no sperm in ejeculate) so can only concieve using IVF/ICSI and sperm retreival I know this is different situation to urs however tbh in my opinion IVF/ICSI would be the best way forward 4 u if u want more info let me know, DH could also try acupuncture along with supplements eg Fertility Blend for Men to try and improve things..

xxxx

 

[EMBY]

I don't know anything about any of that. We are seeing his doctor again next week, so I guess he will tell us something. But, more than likely we will just get referred (again) to someone else and have to go through another process.
I also don't know how to deal with my husband. He seems to lack and real sense of ownership of this, and doesn't want to talk about it at all. I feel for him, but also don't know how to help him.

 

[wannabmum]

ICSI is just like IVF for the woman only difference is instead of your eggs bn placed in the dish to with great number of DH swimmers they will select the best sperm they then burn the tail off and inject directly into your egg the good thing with this is you don't need a huge numer of sperm to acheive this.....

As for how DH is feeling just try to be there to support him and reasure him how u feel about him etc. I know with my DH he felt like he was letting me down a failure and not a 'complete man' I know at the moment this is devestating for you but please try and be ther for each other and take comfort in knowing there is a way forward for you to have your family..

Any other questions just let me know and if u ever want to talk u can post or pm me.

xxx