Skylily4ever
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I need some opinions or suggestions on how I can do this to please both my husband and myself. So this might be more of a question for second time moms.
Ever since I got pregnant, I've been very adament about the baby sleeping in her crib as soon as possible. I really wanted her to start off there so we don't have problems switching over later. Now, I realize some babies don't take to cribs very well, so I planned on if that didn't work out, that we would do a bassinet. Neither of them I planned on having in our room. Our house is very open and echoes a lot, and I'm a very light sleeper, so I figured with all the doors open AND a baby monitor, that it would be okay to have her in her own room, which in all honesty is on the opposite end of the house, but I've had babies sleep in there before and I could hear them fairly easily from our room.
Well my husband is freaking out about something happening to her, he's gone to the extent he blew up our air mattress and put it on the floor of her room, he says he plans on sleeping in there until he feels she's old enough to be safe on her own. I mean, I'm worried sick about leaving her in there by herself too, but I figured in the long run it would be better for her. So now I'm questioning it. There's a bassinet at walmart that's only $50, I'm not gonna go buy a super expensive one IF I decide to. I'm wondering if maybe I should just get it and put it in our bedroom and start her off in there for the first month or two, when we get used to her waking and sleeping routines and whatnot, and to ease my husband's fears, since I don't want him sleeping in her room. There's a few problems though, like I said, I really wanted to try the crib first so she starts off in that and we wouldn't have to worry about switching over later (but we don't want to move the crib to our room). That, and if I do use the bassinet, I'm afraid my husband will STILL freak out when we try to switch her after a month or two.
So if anyone has some suggestions, or personal experiences that would help, I'd really appreciate it =]
Ever since I got pregnant, I've been very adament about the baby sleeping in her crib as soon as possible. I really wanted her to start off there so we don't have problems switching over later. Now, I realize some babies don't take to cribs very well, so I planned on if that didn't work out, that we would do a bassinet. Neither of them I planned on having in our room. Our house is very open and echoes a lot, and I'm a very light sleeper, so I figured with all the doors open AND a baby monitor, that it would be okay to have her in her own room, which in all honesty is on the opposite end of the house, but I've had babies sleep in there before and I could hear them fairly easily from our room.
Well my husband is freaking out about something happening to her, he's gone to the extent he blew up our air mattress and put it on the floor of her room, he says he plans on sleeping in there until he feels she's old enough to be safe on her own. I mean, I'm worried sick about leaving her in there by herself too, but I figured in the long run it would be better for her. So now I'm questioning it. There's a bassinet at walmart that's only $50, I'm not gonna go buy a super expensive one IF I decide to. I'm wondering if maybe I should just get it and put it in our bedroom and start her off in there for the first month or two, when we get used to her waking and sleeping routines and whatnot, and to ease my husband's fears, since I don't want him sleeping in her room. There's a few problems though, like I said, I really wanted to try the crib first so she starts off in that and we wouldn't have to worry about switching over later (but we don't want to move the crib to our room). That, and if I do use the bassinet, I'm afraid my husband will STILL freak out when we try to switch her after a month or two.
So if anyone has some suggestions, or personal experiences that would help, I'd really appreciate it =]