lushious09
Expecting a little boy <3
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so long story short i was with my babys father for 4 years ... we broke up 2months into the pregnancy due to him cheating... for the first few months he was supportive even with ups and downs... he came to the 21 week scan and involved himself with the pregnancy... but when it came to his parents finding out he would avoid telling them...well they were finally informed when i was about 6months gone! (poor them) they have been amazing with support and lovely
now the problem is he wont talk about it with them... hes been like this since they found out but it has recently gotten worst, he has deleted himself from any social network wont speak to them about a thing, locks himself in his room and wont even eat with them anymore! he sneaks off out to god knows where when they are asleep without telling them a thing... then creeps back in a couple of days later at like 4am when they are in bed!
they have wrote him a note saying its nothing they cant work out and they can sort and that they are here for him but still nothing! hes turned up on my door step a few times but ive given up speaking to him because as soon as he leaves he falls back into old habits!
I dont know what else to try hes nearly 23 years old and is acting like a child... i feel awful for his fam they are so upset with the way hes acting and really dont deserve this! his mum dosnt want to just barge into his room and become invasive in fear hel up and sod off... but he knows this and is using it to avoid speaking to them!! the babys due in 19days! its ok to say forget about him but not that easy when his entire family want to be involved and hes making their life shite
now the problem is he wont talk about it with them... hes been like this since they found out but it has recently gotten worst, he has deleted himself from any social network wont speak to them about a thing, locks himself in his room and wont even eat with them anymore! he sneaks off out to god knows where when they are asleep without telling them a thing... then creeps back in a couple of days later at like 4am when they are in bed!
they have wrote him a note saying its nothing they cant work out and they can sort and that they are here for him but still nothing! hes turned up on my door step a few times but ive given up speaking to him because as soon as he leaves he falls back into old habits!I dont know what else to try hes nearly 23 years old and is acting like a child... i feel awful for his fam they are so upset with the way hes acting and really dont deserve this! his mum dosnt want to just barge into his room and become invasive in fear hel up and sod off... but he knows this and is using it to avoid speaking to them!! the babys due in 19days! its ok to say forget about him but not that easy when his entire family want to be involved and hes making their life shite
xx
