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[Abeera]

Hello Everyone!

My name is Abeera and I'm 17 years old and 5 weeks pregnant. I found out about it last week and I haven't told anyone about it. I have not even told my boyfriend about it.

I just don't know how to break the news to him or and how I should tell my parents about it. I am originally from Pakistan but I'm currently studying in Canada. I after I did my AS Level from Pakistan my boyfriend and I both applied to a university here and got accepted. We both live together here and my parents don't know about it either nor does my boyfriend's parents know about this. It is actually considered bad in Pakistan for a boy and a girl to have a sexual relation if they are not married so pregnancy at this age is out the question.

So I'm scared and worried about how I should tell my parents. I know they will not even accept me as their daughter when I tell them. They will never take this lightly. Also, I have to tell my boyfriend about it and I know that he will not take this lightly too. He would say that he can't tell his parents about it and that I should do something about the baby while can or he will just leave me.

I have thought about it and I want to keep this baby. I can't even stand the thought of doing something to this baby.

I'm sorry for making this so long but I just wanted to share this with someone. I'm scared what will happen and what should I do?

 

[littlemommy]

Aww I'm sorry your in this situation. Honestly, I would just tell your boyfriend as soon as possible. You never know he might be your rock during all this like my OH I just straight out told my mom I was pregnant, she was upset for a little bit but she helped me a lot during and after my pregnancy. I hope everything works out! Congrats on the pregnancy and hope you have a healthy and happy 9months

 

[haydenmummy]

Heyy I'm hillary 19 and a mummy of two a 3 year old boy and a 2 week old girl congrats on the babyy x

I don't really know what to say but I think you should tell your OH as soon as you can its his baby as well and your shouldn't be worring together and not on your own maybe he could help you decide when and how to tellur parents but it need to be done and its your body and your baby no1 can make you do something you don't want to no matter what keep strong and keep your head up x

 

[bsd]

I'm so sorry you are in a tough spot! Congrats on your pregnancy I think you should tell your OH as soon as possible because you might be surprised with his reaction! Calmly tell him how you feel about this child and that you want to do it no matter what anybody else thinks or how hard it will be. Hopefully he understands and see's it your way! Keep us updated!

 

[ClairAye]

First off welcome and Congratulations! My name is Clair, I'm 18 and I have a 6 month old son called Jason

I would tell your boyfriend sooner than later! Same with everyone else, the sooner you tell them, the longer they have for it to sink in

 

[jozylynn896]

Congrats!
I don't really know what you should do, but I can tell you this. That is YOUR baby! Your son or daughter and its a beautiful feeling knowing you're gonna be a mommy : ).
Also, I'm 22 weeks pregnant and I still get scared that my boyfriends gonna leave but I. Know that my baby will still love me and I'm gonna love him, even if its hard.
And also, your family will most likely come around
I had a teacher who was from pakistan and he would flip when kids were pregnant but he always came around and gave them advice.
Good luck and congrats on your miracle

 

[x__amour]

Welcome! I'm Shannon, 21, and I have a 2 year old named Victoria "Tori"!

 

[Abeera]

Thanks everyone for the support. I know that the sooner I tell them the better but I don't know what happens to me. I tried to tell my boyfriend today but just chickened out. We are going to see a movie tomorrow and I think I'll break the news to him at that when he's in a good mood or when we come home from the movie.

Wish me luck.

 

[Abeera]

I really hope that he takes this well and doesn't get mad or take it out on me with a fight or something...

 

[MummyMana]

If your boyfriend gets mad about it, just remind him, it takes 2 to tango!

 

[ClairAye]

^ WSS!
I hope it all goes well

 

[Abeera]

Your right MummyMana he is just as involved in this as I am but he never listens when he is angry and having an argument. He always thinks that he's right and I'm wrong.
And thank you ClairAye.

 

[MummyMana]

Let him get it out of his system then hopefully he'll be able to descuss it rationally with you when becalmed down good luck, I hope it goes we'll

 

[bsd]

Good luck I hope it goes well!

 

[Abeera]

Thank you all for the support. I will tell him tonight.

 

[xforuiholdonx]

Did you tell him Hun? How did it go?

 

[Abeera]

Did you tell him Hun? How did it go?

Yeah I told my OH and he was actually very calm and supportive and he's been really caring since.
Thanks for asking.

 

[xforuiholdonx]

That's good! I'm glad he took it so well!