new here, and scared!

[copesy]

Hey . . I just found out yesterday that im pregnant and im absolutely terrified! I am 19, have been with my boyfriend a year and was on the pill after coming off the contraceptive injection in October. I havent had a period in almost 5 months, so I really wasnt expecting this. I took a test 8 weeks ago that was negative but I just had a feeling so I took two yesterday and both were positive.

Dont really know where to go from here.. Im unemployed, looking or a job.. Boyfriend works. We were in the process of saving a deposit up for a place to live and are currently staying in a boxroom at my grandmothers until we have enough to move out. Not in a geat situation, stressed and just needed somewhere to have a bit of rant to!

 

[teenmommy15]

Congratulations on your pregnancy and welcome to Bnb the ladies here are great support so your lucky you found this place so early in your pregnancy my names bethany im 15 and im due June 18th with a baby girl first of stop stressing i know its hard(trust me i know) but stress is very bad for the baby and for you and have you told your boyfriend yet? if not do that first you'll feel alot better if you guys can brainstorm together and maybe he can reassure you a little bit. Next step tell grandma it may be very difficult because my grandma recently found out and it hasnt been easy everytime i see her she just looks so worried like im going to die or something. But once you tell her maybe she'll let you stay their until you guys get enough to make a deposit on an apartment. Main thing is make a doctors appointment ASAP everything will fall into place eventhough it seems stressful now things will get better if you need to talk to anyone you can pm me

 

[ClairAye]

First congratulations and welcome! :wave:

I'm Clair, I'm 18 and I have a son called Jason who is 9 months old in 2 days

When I got pregnant me and OH were staying in a hostel, not working and not in a good place, but now we have our own house and things are still a struggle but it gets much better, are you in the UK? You could apply for a council or housing association house if you can't save up enough in the time you have

 

[xforuiholdonx]

Firstly, Congratulations!
I'm Lisa, aged at 20 and married. DH and I have a 2.5 year old and I am 24 weeks tomorrow with our son.
I know how much of a shock an unplanned pregnancy can be, but also what join it can bring! Try not to stress to much as situations have a nice way of working out. Good luck