New here & lookin 4 friends to chat & share worries

[mama_hope]

Hi all, I'm a Ma of 2, and 19 months ago lost a son at 33 weeks due to eclampsia. After waiting til my body had recovered and many discussions, my partner and I bit the bullet to have another bash.

I don't regret this decision at all but now I'm 9 weeks I feel so over paranoid and cautious, and though I would like to share the news with friends, I'm worried about the risks of losing again.

I just don't want to feel alone in all this....

 

[Fergie]

Aww huni, you're not alone. All of us here have been through the same. Im just 10 + 5 and im not gonna sit here and fib by saying that the loss of my Zara hasn't affected the way i feel about this wee daisy . I'm not so worried now, but any wee ache or pain and it sends me flying back 5 years. I know that this pregnancy isn't the same but it doesnt stop me worrying. All will be fine (positive thoughts ) with all of us.

Fergie Xx

 

[kelly2903]

hey hun im sorry to hear of your lose ( hugs ) i havent been through the same thing but i have mcs and i no thats not close to want you had to go through but i am a paranoid pregnant woman and think everything is gonna go wrong again there are lots of ladies on here an we are all more than happy to listen to your worries and help in way we can

congrats xxxxx

 

[Elliesmummy]

Hey hun firstly i wanted to say im so sorry for the loss of your little boy. Secondly, welcome and congratulations on your pregnancy. It is only natural hun to worry and be paranoid like a mad woman but after what you've been through its completly normal.

I lost my little girl at 25+5 and am currently 27+4 weeks. I'm not gona say i havent worried the whole way through but after passing my loss milestone i feel like we actually might get to bring this little one home with us.

Are you under consultant care hun?

xxxxx