New here, pregnant after a loss in August...

[coffee cake]

Hi mamas. I joined because I feel so alone and scared of miscarrying again. I lost my bean at six weeks in the beginning August, and I got pregnant immediately after. It's what I wanted, but I am so terrified. I am not that far off of where I was last pregnancy.

I just need to speak to people who understand...

Much love

 

[Kasey84]

Congrats and sorry for your previous loss. Being pregnant after a loss is a scary thing, even when it's exactly what we want! It's understandable to be scared once you've lived through the heartache of a mc.

I wish I had some advice on how to stop worrying, but I think that's impossible. You just have to enjoy the days when you can feel happy and excited and somehow deal with the days of worrying along with it. It's tough though!

When are you due? There are lots of groups on here for certain due date months. I'm in the 2014 April Rainbow Babies group for example. I've found it really helpful to be part of a group with people who are at a similar stage of pregnancy and due around the same time. Maybe you could check those out and join up with a group with your due date month.

Sending positive thoughts and hugs your way. Wishing you all the best!!

 

[confuzion]

I'm feeling the exact same way coffee cake after my loss in July. Terrified. It's all I think about. But like Kasey said, talking to people in the same stage helps. I'm in not 1 but 2 pregnancy groups. One I created myself which you're welcome to join (banner in my signature) and the 2014 June rainbow group.

 

[Fairydust22]

Hiya ladies I am feeling exactly the same too I had a mc in aug at 7 weeks I'm 6 weeks pregnant I'm so scared as I'm heading towards 7 weeks will I mc again or will my bean stick this time it's such a worry its so nice to talk to woman who know how you feel

 

[coffee cake]

I had my scan and all looked fine. I'm now simply exhausted from the build up of fear. So exhausted... I'm so sorry for all your losses.

 

[Radiance]

Congratulations on your pregnancy and so very sorry for your loss
My baby boy was stillbirth August 9th of this year and on October 1st I found out I was pregnant. I am about 6 weeks pregnant, so we got pregnant two weeks after having our son. I'm quite nervous!! I have my first appointment Tuesday.

 

[coffee cake]

Congratulations, Radiance. I also lost on the 9th... A day for loss. I wish you love and light. How are you feeling?

 

[Radiance]

Congratulations, Radiance. I also lost on the 9th... A day for loss. I wish you love and light. How are you feeling?

Thank you, emotionally I think I'm doing really good. Really miss Elijah, I started donating keepsake boxes to my hospital and care packages to the ER which I think is helping me in my grieving process. I am also very excited and scared for my pregnancy as I got pregnant two weeks after delivering Elijah.

Physically I'm doing well, my body tends to be sensitive. After long hours with my toddlers I get crampy. Breast are sore, belly is bloated (really bloated), tired, peeing often and nausea with some sickness All good signs.

How are you?