New Here! TTC after 3 Losses

MyRainbow

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Hello there everyone!

My DH and I have been TTC for about a year and a half. In the past year I've had 3 very early miscarriages. My first was a chemical pregnancy (Dec 2013) which ended in a period. I was about 5 weeks. My doc wasn't too worried about it and said it happens quite often. I waited a cycle before trying again. My next pregnancy(March 2014) was thought to be an ectopic. An ultrasound showed nothing but my levels were rising. At 6 weeks it was determined that it was ectopic and I was given a shot of methotrexate to end the non-viable pregnancy. Of course this was extremely devastating. My OB referred me to a specialist to have an HSG as well as other tests performed. My HSG showed that my left tube was blocked (probably from the ectopic) but my right was absolutely fine! I had just about every test imaginable done. From chromosome testing, to my husband's sperm count being tested, to every other common reason for miscarriages (progesterone etc). Everything came back normal.The only thing "out of whack" was my thyroid level. I was told I had hypothyroidism and was prescribed synthroid which I began taking and my levels went down to normal. In Nov 2014 we tried again and in Dec. 2014 I had another chemical pregnancy. I was just 4 weeks, I tested very early. With this being my third loss, we were beyond devastated. My doctor ordered additional blood tests which all came back normal. I just don't know what to think.

My doctor said we can try again on our own and recommended I take a daily regimen of baby aspirin. If I miscarry again though she will strongly recommend IVF. If IVF is our only option to conceive, we are definitely open to it but I REALLY hope to get pregnant (and stay pregnant) without any intervention.

Anyways, sorry for the long introduction! I have only told a handful of family/friends about our losses as I feel it is really personal and I don't like sharing too much but holding on to this pain gets really lonely. I was hoping by joining this forum I might meet other women TTC and possibly someone who has a similar story. My prayers go out to all of you TTC as this is such an exciting yet terrifying time! Thanks for reading! :flower:
 
Welcome to bnb! I'm new as well here. You and your dh have been through quite a bit. I'm very sorry for your losses :(

My husband and I have been ttc for about 10 cycles now and we haven't had any hint of a bfp yet. I can't imagine how difficult it is for you but keep your chin up, stay positive and keep up the BDing. It also seems like a lot of people on here have good ideas and some great insights. It will also keep me from driving my dh bonkers :winkwink:
 
Welcome rainbow!! I'm also ttc #1 after two losses. We started trying in January 2014 and it has been a long 14 months. Message me if you need someone to talk to...I'm always up for chatting with others who are in a similar situation!! Fx to you!!
 
Welcome MyRainbow!

I'm also TTC #1 after experiencing a loss and I know it's a hard journey. The great thing about these boards is you will receive so much encouragement and support from all the wonderful women here. I don't know about you, but my emotions are up and down all the time in regards to TTC and it's nice to know you can always find someone who understands.
 
Welcome to bnb! I'm new as well here. You and your dh have been through quite a bit. I'm very sorry for your losses :(

My husband and I have been ttc for about 10 cycles now and we haven't had any hint of a bfp yet. I can't imagine how difficult it is for you but keep your chin up, stay positive and keep up the BDing. It also seems like a lot of people on here have good ideas and some great insights. It will also keep me from driving my dh bonkers :winkwink:

Thank you for your post and kind words! It definitely seems like the women hear have some great insight and advice which I could definitely us!
 
Hey ladies also ttc number 1 after one loss, it is good to know I am not alone in this journey.... I hope we all get our bfps soon!!!
 
Hi Ladies,

Im also new here and ttc no 1 since June 2013, sadly 2 losses along the way

Will be nice to offer and receive support from ladies in the same boat throughout this journey x
 
Hi ladies...sorry to hear about your losses, but welcome!!! Losses are not something easy to go through and I have found the ladies in here to be very helpful.
 

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