opticalillus5
Mummy to two princesses.
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Hey folks,
I've only just registered and could really do with some advice... It's quite a long story but I don't really know much about TTC and I'm getting so many conflicting stories from the internet!
I'm 25, and when I was 19 I had a MMC. I thought I was 11 weeks, but a scan showed me to be 8 weeks with no heartbeat. As most of you know, it was the most awful experience and still haunts me now. I conceived straight away the next month, and had awful cramping followed by a positive pregnancy test. I began to bleed a week or so later, and was told I was probably going to miscarry again. A scan showed that I had a 52mm cyst on my left ovary, which explained the pain. The doctors said not to worry, and that it would go down if my pregnancy made it through the bleeding. After being petrified for the entire duration of my pregnancy, I'm now sat here with a 4 year old daughter.
Thing is, we have now decided that it is time to try again. My doctors suspected PCOS (because I had loads of hormonal problems about a year after the birth of my daughter - my hair fell out and everything - it was not pleasant) but it was never proven, and my cycle is regular - approx 27 - 29 days every month.
The first day of my last period was 6th december, and we began TTC on the 14th, and bedded every day last week apart from yesterday (sun 27th). from saturday afternoon I have had a persistant cramping, similar to that which I got when I was expecting my daughter. I really don't know much about TTC, but I'm not sure that the dates add up. From what I have found, the cramps seem to have lasted too long to be ovulation cramps, but are too soon to be implantation cramps.
Also there's the worry that it's all in my head, as I really want this and can see myself getting my hopes up again - all the old worry / expectation / paranoia / obsession is coming back. We've only been TTC for a week - surely i'm not that lucky? I've been emotional over the past few days, but I've put it down to the fact that I've just found out (Saturday night) that a close family friend is expecting. I'm so happy for her, but REALLY jealous at the same time. Plus, It piles on the pressure and will undoubtedly add to the dissapointment if anything goes wrong for us (last time, after my MMC, a colleauge at work told me she was expecting twins and it devastated me).
Sorry for the essay ladies - I just don't know many of the abbreviations and i'm going out of my mind!
*hugs*
I've only just registered and could really do with some advice... It's quite a long story but I don't really know much about TTC and I'm getting so many conflicting stories from the internet!
I'm 25, and when I was 19 I had a MMC. I thought I was 11 weeks, but a scan showed me to be 8 weeks with no heartbeat. As most of you know, it was the most awful experience and still haunts me now. I conceived straight away the next month, and had awful cramping followed by a positive pregnancy test. I began to bleed a week or so later, and was told I was probably going to miscarry again. A scan showed that I had a 52mm cyst on my left ovary, which explained the pain. The doctors said not to worry, and that it would go down if my pregnancy made it through the bleeding. After being petrified for the entire duration of my pregnancy, I'm now sat here with a 4 year old daughter.
Thing is, we have now decided that it is time to try again. My doctors suspected PCOS (because I had loads of hormonal problems about a year after the birth of my daughter - my hair fell out and everything - it was not pleasant) but it was never proven, and my cycle is regular - approx 27 - 29 days every month.
The first day of my last period was 6th december, and we began TTC on the 14th, and bedded every day last week apart from yesterday (sun 27th). from saturday afternoon I have had a persistant cramping, similar to that which I got when I was expecting my daughter. I really don't know much about TTC, but I'm not sure that the dates add up. From what I have found, the cramps seem to have lasted too long to be ovulation cramps, but are too soon to be implantation cramps.
Also there's the worry that it's all in my head, as I really want this and can see myself getting my hopes up again - all the old worry / expectation / paranoia / obsession is coming back. We've only been TTC for a week - surely i'm not that lucky? I've been emotional over the past few days, but I've put it down to the fact that I've just found out (Saturday night) that a close family friend is expecting. I'm so happy for her, but REALLY jealous at the same time. Plus, It piles on the pressure and will undoubtedly add to the dissapointment if anything goes wrong for us (last time, after my MMC, a colleauge at work told me she was expecting twins and it devastated me).
Sorry for the essay ladies - I just don't know many of the abbreviations and i'm going out of my mind!
*hugs*