New, Stressed and Unsure of future...

[LilFlower]

Hello Everyone.
Im new on here and not really sure what to right on my first post.
Im 17, nearly eighteen and been with my boyfriend for 6 months. Although its a relatively short amount of time we have become really serious over time. We spend every evening together and its almost like we live together yet i decided i didnt want to move out of my parents until im financially stable...

That said i'd love to live with him in our own place our own space and plenty of time to do what we like.

Recently i had what i think was a miscarriage shortly after returning from our first holiday to Turkey. i didn't go to GP til a while after due to fear of the truth and then she found it hard to tell me a definite as to what had really happened. although she said my "downstairs" seemed ok.

After the misC... i stopped taking my pill and bled, although wasn't sure if this was period or the aftermath of misC. haven't taken it since. My boyfriend and i had sex (unprotected) on what works out as the 14th day of my cycle and since i haven't had my period. but with all that happened i am not sure the exact dats of everything so have been going on a rough estimate? and that being said i should have had period last weds/thurs or this one coming.

I'm beginning to panic and am wondering what the chances are and if its just mind in over drive. ive had symptoms but as my OH said it could be pre-period symptoms aswell?

Any advice or question wud help and ill answer, i just need a lil mind easing and someone to talk to about it all...as OH being a man doesn't understand why im so panick stricken!!

Thanks for reading,
xx

 

[Sarah-Jane]

Hey hun... Welcome to B&B, you'll receive loads of great advice on here as I did
I am also 17 (18 at the end of September)
I have never been through such a tragic experience so I'm not sure I'll be able to give you the help you need or that I want to be able to give.
I'm sure you know that stress and worry can cause your period to arrive late so... relax, go and do something that will help take your mind off it (although it will be hard)
Also... are you ready for a baby in your life? As you weren't using protection I though I'd ask or was it a genuine accident?
As you will get told hun, take a test... that will be the only definite yes or no you will be able to get. If it's negative and your period still hasn't arrived or you're still having doubts, visit your doctor as he/she will be able to help.
If you ever need a chat, I'm always around somewhere.
Hope everything works out for you hun
xxx S.J xxx

 

[LilFlower]

I know. I have sore boobs, cramping, tummy aches, sickness and am all over the place with emotions. is any of this ringing bells?
and Will a test tell me now or am i too early?
Thanks for that post btw... just the kind of response i'd hoped for!
xxBxx

 

[Sarah-Jane]

If you was due last Wednesday/Thursday or this week, it'll be fine to test now, you will get an accurate result (you can test from the first day of your missed period).
I can't really comment on symptoms as I've been lucky up to now *touch wood* and not suffered from them at all lol I had no idea I was pregnant (no sickness or anything) the only thing that made me test was a missed period.
But all the symptoms you've described are commonly connected with early pregnancy or it could also be your body telling you your period is about to arrive as pregnancy and period symptoms are very similar.
What is the result you're hoping for hun?
xxx

 

[Amy]

Get yourself a test hun that way you know.

Good Luck!!

 

[Elli21]

Hi and welcome to bnb I hope u enjoy it here..

All i can say is thats the only way you'll know for sure hun

take care xx

 

[trishk]

the only way to put your mind at rest is to test hun! I hope you get the answer you are looking for!

 

[princess_x0]

I know. I have sore boobs, cramping, tummy aches, sickness and am all over the place with emotions. is any of this ringing bells?
and Will a test tell me now or am i too early?
Thanks for that post btw... just the kind of response i'd hoped for!
xxBxx

Hey sorry to interupt rudely but just wanted to say yeah. Those sound like symptoms hun xx

 

[Happy]

Its the only way to know! All sound like symptoms to me though, hope you get the reult you want. xx

 

[pennysbored]

Well, if you haven't already, get yourself tested.
Good luck, babe...

 

[xarlenex]

They all sound like symptoms, but with minds working overtime, its so easy to put every feeling down to maybe being pregnant. If you have suffered a MC then im not sure your periods would be back to normal that quickly? Although thats a complete shot in the dark, never been through it myself x

 

[LilFlower08]

Hi everyone,

Sorry i haven't replied to anyone... Thankyou all for you comments! its just been crazy last night...

And also my account WONT sign in.... it's ridiculous so i just rejoined!!

I took a test last night.... my closest friend bought me the test and i did it on impulse after reading all your comments!!

it came back negative. which has taken the weight off as i don't know if i could deal with it all now being so soon after the MisC.

Im really relieved and i thought i may feel abit gutted after building myself up fo it... i honestly am so surprised cos i had so many symptoms...

The OH said before i took it..."i'll be so suprised if it comes back negative and im prepared for the fact we're gonna have a baby!"

Bless...

Thanks everyone...

How is it all goin? All the mummies etc... come and chat to me i'd like to keep in touch cos i don't think i'd have done it if you hadn't spurred me on!

Thanks B xx

 

[LilFlower08]

And also I'm already a kinda step mum to my boyf's other lil boy so we decided after a long chat to focus on him a lil longer before we go all out ourselves! x

 

[Dream.A.Dream]

Glad that everything has turned out okay for you