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[Emmea12uk]

Hello everyone!

Well if you dont know me, my relationship has been falling apart since the mid of my pregnancy. I have been trying to keep it together for the sake of my son, who is now 16 months and disabled. But also because I didnt think I could cope with my son and his extra needs on my own. Now I finally ended the relationship.

I am also a uni full time....

Does it get any easier? Or will all this sadnes turn to hate and arguments about who's turn it is to be with my son?!

I don't want to share...I don't want my son to be hurt by all this.

Thanks for listening

 

[sam's mum]

Sorry I don't have much advice but wanted to send you some (and you know we're not too far away if you ever need anything) x

 

[LaDY]

Im sorry to hear this hun... Its a great thing that you are a amazing mum and strong enough to leave your relationship...i really admire you and your strength...

Im sorry that i have no advice...im hear if you want to talk xx

 

[Ash_P]

hey hun, sorry i dont have any advice, im only going thru it now, mid-pregnancy, so have it all to come. Good for u on having the strength to do it. I hope everything will work out. Im sure ur gonna do brilliantly and uv got ur wee boy to keep u going. Good luck hun x

 

[tinkabells]

Wow your doing so well, you should be very proud of yourself and of your little boy, i dont have any advice, but it will get easier xxx

 

[teal]

If your relationship wasn't working then it's probably for the best that you ended it. I agree that you should be proud of youself and all your doing for your son.

xx

 

[suzanne108]

welcome to our little group....xxx

 

[purpledahlia]

Dont have any advice, im still pregnant and have this to come, but you will get thru it, it will get easier, you learn to cope because you have too for the sake of ur little boy!

Welcome xx

 

[xxannxx]

I would say that it will get easier hun. At the minute your still upset due to the break-up and trying to get used to being on your own, and that will get easier in time, and getting into your own routine helps too.
I agree with what the others have said, don't be so hard on yourself, and don't expect too much from yourself right away, your doing a good job and you should be proud.
Welcome and good luck

 

[leeanne]

 

[lou_w34]

hellos

I havent been throught this yet, as im still pregnant, but im sure with time it gets easier