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[Tattybear]

Hi this is the 1st time i ever posted on any sort of forum but i feel i need to.

My husband & i have been trying for 3.5 years to concieve before we were finally given clomid. Imagine my joy then when on month 1 of clomid we concieve .
We went for a scan at 6 weeks as i experienced some bleeding and a heartbeat was found and again i was overjoyed.

We went for our dating scan yesterday at 9 weeks only to be told the baby didn't make it past 6.5 weeks.
I came out of hospital yesterday after been in for a day & a half.
I opted for the medicinal option rather than surgery . It was the most hurrendous experience i have ever known & my heart goes out to anyone else who has to go through it.
But here's to the future and hoping that clomid can work its magic again x

 

[rachjim98]

Goodluck sweetheart, and I am sorry for your loss. I hope it all works out for you. xoxox

 

[Nicki2202]

So sorry for your loss
Wish you the best of luck in the future xxxx

 

[Chilli]

It's hard. Hope you are okay.

 

[todteach]

Sending you big . So sorry you are going through this.

 

[who's_mummy]

So sorry to hear about your loss

Gemma x

 

[marsbar1973]

Sorry to hear of your loss. xxx

 

[chella]

Hi this is the 1st time i ever posted on any sort of forum but i feel i need to.

My husband & i have been trying for 3.5 years to concieve before we were finally given clomid. Imagine my joy then when on month 1 of clomid we concieve .
We went for a scan at 6 weeks as i experienced some bleeding and a heartbeat was found and again i was overjoyed.

We went for our dating scan yesterday at 9 weeks only to be told the baby didn't make it past 6.5 weeks.
I came out of hospital yesterday after been in for a day & a half.
I opted for the medicinal option rather than surgery . It was the most hurrendous experience i have ever known & my heart goes out to anyone else who has to go through it.
But here's to the future and hoping that clomid can work its magic again x

Hi

Just read ur post, im so sorry for ur loss, i opted for the medical option 2 weeks ago and it was something i hope i never have to go through again, please feel free to msg me wen ever if u fancy a chay

sending loadsa xxxxx hope u have good news soon xxxxx

 

[Tattybear]

Thanks everyone.
Seems like at the moment i am surrounded by pregnant women all seemingly without a care in the world.Even the tv is full of them !
Think if i could see in to the future and know that it will happen for us i would be ok , but it's the fear of what if it never happens again and that was our 1 chance.
I get the feeling i'm at the start of a very , very long journey : (

 

[rachjim98]

You just have to keep the faith that this is going to happen for you. I hate to put it this way but... Everytime we walk out the door we have a chance of something bad happening but we still walk out the door. Dont let this terrible experience stop you form having or trying to have the most precious thing out there!

Best of luck to you! It will be a hard journey to move on past something so painful. I just hope it isnt a long journey to get there

 

[Widger]

I'm sorry for your loss. I was in a daze after my last mc and I know what you mean about seeing everything related to pregnancy around you, on tv, in supermarket. You will get lots for support from everyone here x

 

[Aidedhoney]

Its not an easy journey, i lost my twins at 16wks and like yourselve took the medical option, it is one of the most distressing things i have ever had to do they dont tell you just how hard it is!!!!! As time passes it does get easier but you never forget not a day goes by that i dont think of it.

Good luck and my thoughts are with u xx