newly single and just found out im pregnant

[stephanie1990]

i want to be sick

iv been split up from my oh about 3/4 weeks.
i live with my mom and dad with my 2 girls
and now im pregnant. i have no idea what im going to do, how im gunna cope. emotionally im all over the place. i haven't slept in days
i dont know how far i am because i haven't had any proper periods since amelia was born. i think me and ex had sex the end of january before all the troubles started. i feel like such an idiot. its all my fault.

 

[moomin_troll]

First off it's not all your fault, takes two to make a baby.
It must be a huge shock, have u told ur ex yet?

 

[stephanie1990]

yeah he knows he was shocked but happy which doesn't make any sense.
he then tried to be nice to me and ask me if we could make another go of it and that we have to be a family for the kids etc. he was guilt tripping me really bad.

believe it or not but we went to look at a house today were living apart. hes in a flat and im with my parents. this house is perfect for me, by my parents and family etc. enough room for the kids etc.

all the time looking round the house, he was picking up faults and arguing with me saying how miserable i look etc.
it was when we left the house that it finally hit me that he has never put me first or considered my feelings. he is an emotional bully towards me and i know that if was with him id feel trapped. i need to do what is right

iv decided to go for the house myself with the girls which is so scary that im tearing up writing this. i know im a good mom i just hope i cant cope with 3 xx

 

[moomin_troll]

My mum said 2 was hard, 3 was easy lol and she's been a single mum of 4. Luckily u have an ex who will help out?
U can do it!
And good for u! It's not good being in an u happy relationship, ur kids don't need to see it.
How exciting, hope u get the house and can make a new home with a new start

 

[blamesydney]

I've always said I'd rather go at it alone then be pressured into a miserable relationship that my girl will have to see. Good for you, and good luck.