Newly Single and Pregnant

[Sandie_Cali]

Hi everyone,

I need help and support, I am newly single as Friday and well found out today. I am at a loss for words because this is the second time he has done this to me and our second and last pregnancy.

I am depressed, very hurt, scared, and just plain in shock. I dont know what to say only that I thought we were doing well and ever since I became pregnant I became hormonal to the max, small things that would not trigger me now are magnified by 1000.

Recently I have been a biznatch to be with but to my defense he has not been an angel either. We have only had sex once since finding out we were pregnant. He told me he is not attracted to me because of my attitude and does not want to be with me.

I take full responsibility for my actions and feel that I am the one that pushed him away. He has said so many hurtful things to me, so many.

I dont know what to do, I can move to Texas with my family but would take a financial blow to include no insurance for me nor the baby and not income. But if I stay until the baby is born I will gain alot. Only thing is that he said he would stay with me until the baby was born but not to be surprised that his things were gone after wards.

I am older than him, but we look the same age, I dont want anymore children and up until a week ago now I seem old to him and he wants to have two more children, but he cant even afford the ones we have.. I pay for everything and he does nothing but come home and get into his underware and sleep or sit and watch TV.. Never picked up a finger to help. Until last week he saw that I was ill and he helped with cleaning the kitchen bathroom and livingroom.. I appreciate that he did this... My story is pretty long and I dont want to write a book but I will write something everyonce in a while and wanted to introduce myself.

If you like you can look up my previous posts and see what I have been through.. I just wanted to say hello and need support please.

 

[billy2mm]

hi hun i dont have any advice realy but i didnt want to read and run

coz i think you need it!

 

[LittleMadam]

Beat him to the punch. Get rid of him. He sounds more of a hindrance than a help, tbh, and you need to focus on yourself and your LO. Sorry if I seem harsh but if he is going to leave anyway, why prolong it?

 

[angelkatelyn]

i wish i could help hun but i cant im in the same situation but we split 2 days ago, everythin you'v put is the same as my situation, i would help if i could but im struggling just as much sorry huni. bigs hugs xxx

 

[gemabee]

my ex left me when i was 3 months pregnant... i was distraught nd thought i couldn't cope. my mum lives 100s miles away aaand i had to cope with seein my ex every day =(
its taken time but i'm officially 'there'... over him... happy nd sorted.
i dont need him nor do i want him in mine or lo's life.
it'll take time but u'll get there.

xxx