night terrors

xashleyx

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my 4 year old daughter is having night terrors (i think thats what she is having) for months now and i thought she would grow out of them, she is having them EVERY night, screaming and crying and talking but we cant really make out what she is saying, but tonight has just got worse, we heard a thud and thought she had fallen out her bed but she was actually banging her head against the wall crying and shouting stop!stop!! i dont know what to do anymore, i dont want her hurting herself
 
I am not sure what to do as I never experienced this but didn't want to read and run.. I am sorry she is going through this. I can only imagine how scary it must be. Have you tried taking her to the dr? Maybe they will have some advice? I hope things get better soon.. *Hugs*
 
would it be possible to have her see a specialist? perhaps a psychologist. not saying she has "problems", or anything of the sort but these are issues they often deal with... and they might be able to find out what underlying issue is causing the nightterrors.. she could just be anxious about something. and again i suggest a psychologist.. not a psychiatrist.. medication isn't the first step you would normally wanna take. my sister had night terrors very bad when she was little.
 
Take a good care of her. Kids actually need parents to care for them. This is not a big deal. Sleep with her for some nights. Try to convince her that there is nothing that make us to fear.
 
My son went through this. i was mortified hed thrash, scream throw himself all over and i felt totally useless. i spoke to my health visitor and she asked if we had anything stressful going on, i said we were currently in the process of moving house. she also asked if he had a good imagination, he does. she said what was likely to be happening was that he wasnt switching off from his imagination and was dealing with the stress of moving house. he was 3 at the time. she said that he has no idea what he is doing or any recolection the next day. and its harder for the parent to deal with than the child. she said that its best not to wake them when its happening just to soothe them and reassure them with words ensuring their safety especially if she is banging her head, my son hit his head off the wood at the bottom of his bed and i was distraught. it is a really hard and tiring time, and she will eventually grow out of it. try and see if theres anything that could be causing her any stress, with a child it could be something so small. just carry on being a good mammy and be there for her and remember it will stop. by the way im also a nursery nurse of 12 yrs and the things that can play on a childs mind really can be the smallest thing but in their eyes it can be so big. hope ive helped
 
Thomas gets them every so often since he was 8 months old, he is now two! My nephew had them and my sister found that she just sat in the room and waited for it to blow over, they are asleep and touching them scares them more I think! My hubbies brother still gets them every so often! Its tough going! There is info on the web though! ;)
 

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