No more bleeding - yippeeeeeeee!!

[maccy]

Erica, your 4th time, I can't imagine how heartbreaking it is. I bled very heavily for about 13 hours then the next day still quite heavy, then it tailed off until 10 days later when it all started again, the products were still inside me thats why I was still bleeding, the nurse told me that your body will keep producing clots etc to try and expel the products, if it goes on too long contact a Dr. Take care hun (hope I haven't worried you just wanted you to be aware)

 

[golcarlilly]

Erica, your 4th time, I can't imagine how heartbreaking it is. I bled very heavily for about 13 hours then the next day still quite heavy, then it tailed off until 10 days later when it all started again, the products were still inside me thats why I was still bleeding, the nurse told me that your body will keep producing clots etc to try and expel the products, if it goes on too long contact a Dr. Take care hun (hope I haven't worried you just wanted you to be aware)

Same here they told me I would continue bleeding however small the retained products were, it is your bodies way of getting rid of everything and the contractions are part of it I assume, I never thought my bleeding would stop did you maccy?

 

[maccy]

No, it feels lush without a pad on

I have felt so much more positive since I've stopped, it's like right it's over now I can start to get on with things, that sounds a bit like I don't give a monkeys but it's not like that at all. I've had 5 weeks (same as you) to come to terms with it but you just can't move on when every time you go to the toilet there is a reminder there. I been reading (this internet eh it's addictive) bout your first AF after a mc and it says well here you go...

https://www.pregnancyloss.info/first_period.htm also read the 'waiting for a period' bit.

This makes me wanna wait for a 2nd AF but then it all depends how long it takes to come back, are you nervous bout it happening again?

 

[golcarlilly]

I have read some of that website before it is really good, goes through all possible case scenarios, I think I will just wait the one AF before trying still, my hormone levels must have been very low when I got my a week last Sunday so going by that website I should expect AF in 3 weeks or thereabouts, since I had a scan last week which showed no further retained products and showed my lining as thickened I think I can safely assume my next bleed will be my period and not continuation of my m/c - does that sound right to you Maccy? why are you thinking you will wait longer? This is all very confusing isn't it!!

PS I am SOOOOO happy not to have to wear the nappies anymore

 

[maccy]

I have read some of that website before it is really good, goes through all possible case scenarios, I think I will just wait the one AF before trying still, my hormone levels must have been very low when I got my a week last Sunday so going by that website I should expect AF in 3 weeks or thereabouts, since I had a scan last week which showed no further retained products and showed my lining as thickened I think I can safely assume my next bleed will be my period and not continuation of my m/c - does that sound right to you Maccy? why are you thinking you will wait longer? This is all very confusing isn't it!!

PS I am SOOOOO happy not to have to wear the nappies anymore

Yeah I think you'll be fine and I'm sure after everything I've been through too everything should be clear and out. I dunno why wanna wait for a 2nd AF. I really really want another one, but I am just really nervous now bout it happening again. It's been so traumatic I don't know how people deal with 3+ mc's.
Having one healithy pregnancy previously I suppose I never thought it would happen to me and now it has, I am just scared really I'm sure I'll get over it. I'd love it if we were all preg the same time it would be great.

 

[golcarlilly]

I am really scared too, like you said when you have had one 'normal' pg it just shakes you up when something goes wrong, I think like someone else said it kind of takes away the innocence of it all and makes you paranoid!

 

[erica80]

Hi Erica, so sorry to hear you are going through this a fourth time you must be devastated, I really feel for you, have you had any treatment or are you m/carrying naturally? I had really bad contraction like pains for a few days when I carried on m/carrying naturally a week after I had failed medical management (if you see what i mean) Hope you are ok pm me if you need a chat

thank you for your message,

i miscarry natually, the doctors are not sure why its ben happening, i have been having treatment to conceive.

i was really surprised this time i had all the good signs sickness, tired and i had no pains until i started to bleed.

i would also like to thank everyone for there kind messages they really help

 

[golcarlilly]

You're welcome chick, hope you are soon over the worst I know it is early days but are you planning to keep trying?

 

[erica80]

You're welcome chick, hope you are soon over the worst I know it is early days but are you planning to keep trying?

We will be trying again, we have been trying for so long now that even though it didnt last long the joy i felt when i got that line i cant explain.

I am scared but at least i know that i can get pregnant so after next af i will think about starting to try but will have to remember it may not happen straight away (that will be the hardest part) im not very patient the next couple of months will go so slowly!

I seem to have stopped bleeding which is worrying me today im not sure why that has happenend because after my other m/s i bleed for 14 days or more. i think another trip to the doctors if dont start to bleed again today, part of me is hoping i could still be pregnant (i know im not but i still do this to myself everytime stupid really)

I do feel alot better today i think its because i have had so many its like the norm for me

 

[erica80]

I'm so sorry, Erica. This must be heartbreaking for you. All I can offer is lots of . We're here if you want a chat.

Much love xx

thank you x

its so nice to be able to chat x

 

[golcarlilly]

We will be trying again, we have been trying for so long now that even though it didnt last long the joy i felt when i got that line i cant explain.

I am scared but at least i know that i can get pregnant so after next af i will think about starting to try but will have to remember it may not happen straight away (that will be the hardest part) im not very patient the next couple of months will go so slowly!QUOTE]


I know how you feel, we were trying for 6 months before I got my I know that is not long really but with my DD I got pg straight after coming off the pill ( 14 years ago now) and I just expected the same I am nearly 39 now so feel time is running out for me! I am the most impatient person ever and the wait for AF is killing me!! All I can say is that I am so glad to have found this site and all the ladies on it, we all are here to support each other through our toughest times, I hope you find comfort in that too

 

[erica80]

i think the site is great i have been so scared in the last couple of months and to be able to chat is great especially because before inding this site i felt pretty alone, i can talk to my partner but he doesnt understand the same.

i have a little girl who is now 4 and i expected to get pregnant really quick.

if you ever need a chat or a moan you knw where i am x you have really helped me x

 

[maccy]

i think the site is great i have been so scared in the last couple of months and to be able to chat is great especially because before inding this site i felt pretty alone, i can talk to my partner but he doesnt understand the same.

i have a little girl who is now 4 and i expected to get pregnant really quick.

if you ever need a chat or a moan you knw where i am x you have really helped me x

My little girl is 4 too, and I just gone through a mc, hope to catch quickly though same as before, take care hun. x

 

[erica80]

My little girl is 4 too, and I just gone through a mc, hope to catch quickly though same as before, take care hun. x

lets hope that all of us get a bfp soon i have my fingers crossed for all of us x

 

[erica80]

hi again,

just a quick question how long after the m/s should pregnancy test stop showing a positive, i started bleeding on sunday and did a test tnight and its still showing a positive and i have stopped bleeding ( is it wishful thinking)

 

[WW1]

I had a medical management last week and was told to wait 3 weeks before doing a pg test. It should be negative by then (if not there is probably some residual tissue remaining and I need to contact the gynae clinic again).

I was told that it can take a while for the HCG hormone to disappear and it wont do until the uterus is completely clear of pregnancy tissue (sorry TMI!)

I hope that is useful x

 

[maccy]

When I had mine, I was still testing positive till I had the retained products removed. It can take 3 weeks though as WW1 says. xx

 

[erica80]

hi all,

i hope you are all ok.

i am feeling alot better no bleeding, i have decided to leave it a couple of months to relax and get my body back to normal and then try again.

i go on holiday next week so hopefully after that i will be more positive about it all and have more luck x

anyone had a bfp this month

 

[maccy]

Hi Erica, a lot of us have moved over to the WTTC board now, soo glad that you have stopped bleeding, it makes you feel so much better doesn't it. I am trying now and my AF hasn't come yet although I think it's due this weekend. Come and join us on the other board when you feel ready. xxxx

 

[Happy]

hi again,

just a quick question how long after the m/s should pregnancy test stop showing a positive, i started bleeding on sunday and did a test tnight and its still showing a positive and i have stopped bleeding ( is it wishful thinking)

I did mine 10 days afterwards and got a negative but I was told to wait 2 weeks.