No one to talk to

[firstbaby9573]

Hey ladies, I just wanted to rant really
I feel a little like because I'm now pregnant no one cares or iv upset them and it's getting. Me down to be honest

Iv had trouble trying to concieve since losing this. To an ectopic two years an
Go and everyone knows this. During this time iv watched all my friends and family go on to have healthy babies whilst I struggled on.

Now I finally got my time in the sun the people I take to(those who do t have children) just want to change the subject or have started being a bit cold and quiet towards me. Then my sister in law (brothers wife) told me she doesn't want me to talk to her about my pregnancy as she thinks she's going to have problems conceiving due to irregular periods(but she doesn't know that as they aren't starting till after Xmas)

So the only person I can talk to is my other half and sometime us just want to chat to the girls you know?

I'm so happy and excited that iv finally got what iv been waiting for for so long and I feel no one either cares about it or if I mention oh I'm feeling. A bit nauseous today the subject is instantly changed .
It's upsetting me if I'm honest.

I could understand if they had all been trying for a while and I had got preg straight away as that might upset me slightly but if I had known one. Of my friends had been trying and wanting for so long I would be nothing but over the moon.

Rant over lol

 

[firstbaby9573]

Sorry my autocorrect appears to have changed most of that. The second paragraph was ment to say after losing twins to an ectopic 2 years ago

 

[deltadawn1987]

Hi just wanted to say that it sucks to have no one to talk to about pregnancy I've been there hope it gets better for you soon and a huge congratulations on your baby hope all goes well for you.Also you can vent here anytime I'm sure you will get lots of support from the lady's here sorry I don't have much advice but just wanted to let you know that I felt the same way I never really had anyone to talk to about my pregnancy we'll apart from dh but like you said sometimes you just need a girly chat hope it gets better soon xx

 

[deltadawn1987]

Sorry for the spelling mistakes silly autocorrect on my phone lol don't know if any of that was readable haha

 

[firstbaby9573]

perfectly readable thankyou for replying! I'll cope I just a bit taken aback by people's reactions- I honestly didn't expect from my two best friends and sister in law.
The only people interested are my other halves family (his sisters due same day)
not even my own sister cares which sucks considering my mum and dad both passed on you'd think they would be happy the family's getting bigger again