Not sure if I'm in labour or not! *Updated - It was!*

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Argh, this is frustrating and a little scary :dohh:

As a history, DD1 came after a long steady 24h labour with half hour pushing. DD2 on the other hand came an hour after getting to the hospital in 2 pushes (3 mins), though the contractions had been going for about 12 hours, just not hugely painful till the last 10 mins or so (painful and regular, but I coped till that point then it was too late for pain relief). They came at +7 and +8 days overdue respectively, so I was (maybe still am?) convinced this one would be overdue too.

I started getting pretty heavy BH at 10:45pm last night that felt a bit different to my previous ones. Decided to go to bed and sleep them off, and was woken up by them at 1.30am, coming every 3 mins and 45 secs long, and very uncomfortable. OH and I aren't living together atm so I decided to call him to get him to come over "just in case". When he saw me scrunch my face up through a contraction we decided we should go in as it was exactly the same as DD2, and she came soon after that.

Got to the hospital, contractions getting longer and stronger. Asked for an internal to see how I was doing, and was at 1-2cm but very stretchy, membranes bulging, and during a contraction going "way up" dilation wise. Went for a walk, starting to get quite ouchy so decided to get the pool filled up because this time I'd love to actually have a water birth! When I got in, the contractions seemed to ease off so I only stayed in there about 10 mins and decided to go walkies again.

Fast forward, and the contractions totally eased off for a while, now they are coming in fits and starts... No more than every 5 mins and sometimes longer :( Feel very crampy and a lot of pressure, but not as ouchy as they were. They were nervous about letting me go home as when they examined me I was at 3cm and "the stretchest cervix she's ever felt", baby had also decided to pop right back out of my pelvis for a bit so they are worried if my waters go when she does that I could be at risk of cord prolapse (but 2 mins later she was back "down there").

I've just got home, been to the loo and had a bloody show (that didn't happen until right before DD2 came last time - she didn't bother breaking my waters either and came out in the sack!) so it's looking positive, and I'm definately not feeling "right", but where did the regular contractions go? It would be useful if it just stopped completely, or progressed properly, I'm not sure if I'm in labour or not! :dohh: Having a cup of RLT and trying to chill out, I don't think me stressing was / is helping!

Thankfully the midwife is on labour duty so she'll come straight to the house if anything kicks off and we don't think we can get to the hospital in time, they were as unsure as me whether I should stay or not but as she should be able to get here quite quickly it should be OK!

In a bit of denial as I'm only just 38 weeks, then again both my other two were back to back so not an ideal position and these contractions are odd because I'm used to the back spliting type of pain and these are mostly at the front and low down will mild back pain. Argh just wish I knew for sure either way! Sorry needed to rant!
 
i know exactly how you feel. i am having the same thing. just wish they would either disappear or get stronger so i know whats happening lol. :hugs: hope this is it for you x
 
Just been to the loo and had some really strong contractions that I had to breathe through, also lost a ton more of my mucous plug and I noticed a tiny pool of water on the floor when I stood up but don't know if it's waters or not! I'm thinking this could very well be labour I just have no idea when to go back to hospital lol. Walking definately seems to do the trick though so I'm going to have a little wander round the flat even if they do huuuurt when I do, and when I sit down they are fairly nice >.<

Thanks girls xx
 
Just been to the loo and had some really strong contractions that I had to breathe through, also lost a ton more of my mucous plug and I noticed a tiny pool of water on the floor when I stood up but don't know if it's waters or not! I'm thinking this could very well be labour I just have no idea when to go back to hospital lol. Walking definately seems to do the trick though so I'm going to have a little wander round the flat even if they do huuuurt when I do, and when I sit down they are fairly nice >.<

Thanks girls xx

I think thats a bit of your water. I would call your MW when you have to breathe through quite a few of em.
 
Ahh bless you, it certainly sounds like this is it but how frustrating for you! Keep us updated hun and good luck xx
 
fingers crossed that you will be cuddling your new baby very soon hun :D im so jealous!! keep us updated xx
 
Hi girls, I'm back home now so time to update - Turns out it was definately labour! I actually managed a couple of hours sleep after I posted, but contractions where still there and acting weird when I woke up. The midwife came out to me at about 3.30pm and I was 3cm and very stretchy, but after the exam it was like someone flipped a switch and they started coming thick and fast and very painful. She told me to stay put for at least half an hour to make sure they were here to stay, but as soon as she left I told OH I thought we should get to the hospital right now... Good job because I ended up giving birth in the hospital car park!!! OH had to catch her! I'll post a proper story of it soon, I have my little girl in my arms atm - Rebbeca Hope born at 4.35pm on 8/9/10 weighing 6lb 4oz :) xx
 
Congratulations! Look forward to the full story - sounds eventful!
 
hi girls, i'm back home now so time to update - turns out it was definately labour! I actually managed a couple of hours sleep after i posted, but contractions where still there and acting weird when i woke up. The midwife came out to me at about 3.30pm and i was 3cm and very stretchy, but after the exam it was like someone flipped a switch and they started coming thick and fast and very painful. She told me to stay put for at least half an hour to make sure they were here to stay, but as soon as she left i told oh i thought we should get to the hospital right now... Good job because i ended up giving birth in the hospital car park!!! Oh had to catch her! I'll post a proper story of it soon, i have my little girl in my arms atm - rebbeca hope born at 4.35pm on 8/9/10 weighing 6lb 4oz :) xx

wow!! Congratulations!!

X
 
OMG!!!!! I want to say a big congrats to your OH who must have shit has pants lol. I just told my husband about that and he has gone a lovely shade of grey! Well done you though!!! x
 
Well done and congratulations. Can't wait to read your birth story xx
 
What an ace story :) congratulations and well done!!! xxx
 
I LOVE surpise births! how exciting :hugs: I just don't want it to happen to me :haha:
Congratulations on Rebbeca Hope's eventful birth :)
xx
 
congratulations on your little girl xxxx hope you guys are doing well
 
wow congrats! cant wait to ready birth story!
 
Aww that's great news hun, I'll look out for the full story xx
 
awww congraulations! :D and well done to your OH xx
 
Sorry for bumping this up but i went on a search for you and wondered if you had LO yet. Congratulations hun xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
 

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