not sure if i'm ready yet

[littlemonkey]

hiya all,

Don't know what to say,
baby sadly died yesterday as i went into Labour at 4.30am i was 20+5 weeks,

I just don't think it's sunk in yet and i don't know where to start.

I only joined 2 days ago so never got to chat to anyone.

sorry ladies just don't know what to do??

 

[akamummy]

You poor chicken!

Little monkey, All I can say is Im so sorry for your loss! Im not going to try and pretend to understand...as I havent been through it...all I can do is say that Im here for you.

If you need to have a then go ahead...Im here happy to listen to you if you would like. We can be forum buddies

Make sure you stay warm and drink lots of cups of teas with plenty of sugar...(OMG I sound like my mother! That was her remedy for EVERYTHING!!! )
But please feel free to chat! I recently had a m/c and d&c at 11 1/2 weeks...And I found that this forum was very helpful!

Take care...and hopefully we can talk again soon! :wave:

 

[Jenelle]

I am soooo sorry for your loss, I cant even begin to imagine what you are going through... we are here if you need a chat.

 

[Rumpskin]

So sorry sweety for you loss.

Sending you a .

Please take care of yourself.

Lots of love xxx

 

[Snowball]

OMG littlemonkey, I am so sorry

If you need to talk I have just lost our baby at 21 weeks on Wednesday. Please feel free to pm me anytime.

 

[Orla]

this is my first day on this and your post was the first i read,
firstly...im so so sorry for your loss...i can not even begin to imagine to heart ache you are going through,
i had a scare my self this week when we had our 20 week scan and that in its self really worried and upset me
i really jus dont know any words which will at this time will make a difference to u, but jus that i hope u are comforted by family and friends
and that i am here to listen if u do need a chat

your in my thoughts

 

[Ann-Marie]

I didn't realise you'd already posted on here......

i meant what I said, if you need to chat... I'm here.

It's good you have your sister in law coming over....

 

[toot]

I am so sorry for you loss, sending you we are all here for you.

 

[biteable]

Sending you hugs,im so sorry hun xxxx

 

[Vickie]

So sorry to hear of your loss.

 

[Uvlollypop]

big hugs i lost a baby at29weeks so know how you feel if you want to talk

x

 

[Mynxie]

just want to say I'm thinking of you xx

 

[tansey]

so sorry for your loss You must take care of yourself and give yourself time to grieve. There are lots of lovel ladies on here who have been through similar things and so understand what you are going through - you'll always have someone to talk to here

 

[leeanne]

 

[jacky24]

I am so sorry for your loss
I also lost my baby boy at 37weeks and 2days, if you ever need anything we are always here to listen... PM me anytime

 

[nickyb]

im so very sorry for your loss my thoughts and prayers are with u xxxxxx

 

[Sweetie]

Our thoughts will be with you. I am so sorry that you are going through this. I always wish that I had something more helpful to say. Hugs for you and yours.

 

[niknaknat]

sorry chick

 

[mBLACK]

You and your family are in my prayers. I wish you all the best. If you need to talk, don't hesitate to pm me at anytime, we're all here for you.

 

[littlemonkey]

Thank you ladies think i have cracked up a bit the past couple of days.
Can't sleep and when i do i'm having nightmares, Just can't get everything out my head at least little man is keeping me busy otherwise i would be in bits.

it's upsetting me that people are ignoring me including the mother in law and the neighbours, think it's more they don't know what to say but ignoring me is not helping.

was at the hospital most of yesterday afternoon Sorting out everything for baby and ranting on at the midwife which has made me even more confused will find out everything in 6 weeks, bloody 6 weeks can't believe they make you wait that long.

My BP is still high so they are worried almost admitted me yesterday but managed to get myself out of that one i hate hospitals.

Need to sort out all the baby things can't bring myself to do it yet but they are all round the house and in the cuboards.