twinkletots
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I am currently around five weeks pregnant and struggling with an ongoing debate in my head about whether or not to do prenatal testing.
The interesting part about all this is that I currently have a 14 week old baby!! Who also has down's syndrome.
I had prenatal screening with my last pregnancy (combined nuchal fold and blood tests) which can back low risk. There were also no soft markers found at 20 week anomaly scan despite the fact she has a hole in her heart which requires open heart surgery.
Needless to say when she was born my husband and I were in shock. I am horrified to admit that we thought we would never love her and it felt like the bottom had fallen out of our world.
I am delighted to say that 14 weeks on we absolutely adore her and can't get enough of our gorgeous angel.
However, I am now in the situation of being pregnant again am automatically classed as high risk for another chromosomal abnormality. The only way to know for sure would be to get invasive testing such as CVS or amniocentesis. I have had two miscarriages in the past so I am really wary of this but at the same time I feel like I need to know.
Love my girl to bits but don't think I could handle the shock if it happened again and feel the need to be prepared.
Any thoughts?
The interesting part about all this is that I currently have a 14 week old baby!! Who also has down's syndrome.
I had prenatal screening with my last pregnancy (combined nuchal fold and blood tests) which can back low risk. There were also no soft markers found at 20 week anomaly scan despite the fact she has a hole in her heart which requires open heart surgery.
Needless to say when she was born my husband and I were in shock. I am horrified to admit that we thought we would never love her and it felt like the bottom had fallen out of our world.
I am delighted to say that 14 weeks on we absolutely adore her and can't get enough of our gorgeous angel.
However, I am now in the situation of being pregnant again am automatically classed as high risk for another chromosomal abnormality. The only way to know for sure would be to get invasive testing such as CVS or amniocentesis. I have had two miscarriages in the past so I am really wary of this but at the same time I feel like I need to know.
Love my girl to bits but don't think I could handle the shock if it happened again and feel the need to be prepared.
Any thoughts?