Nowhere to go

[Kris0309]

Well i was going to tell my mom this week im pregnant but when i got back from hanging out with my boyfriend i entered the house and she just started yelling at me saying if since im 19 and sooo grown now i should be able to call ppl and tell them to stop calling the house. and she keeps mentioning sarcastically that im 19 and grown. I more grown up then she has ever been she pretty much stopped raising me since i was 16 and she has been taking drugs for along time. which i cant wait till i could get out of this house.
So if i tell her im pregnant now she will kick me out i know she will. I think i will wait till i move in school that way i have a place to live for awhile. Ugghhh i dont know what to do . She is bi polar and is crazy she is just mad cause weels ago i walked out of the house without her approval and left for the night . Well actually she told me if i left to nto come back so ididnt until my sister told me to come home. My bf jus bought a car and now we can start looking for an apt but im afraid we wont find one intime and i dont have a job that pays enough.

 

[r a i n _x]

probably sounds harsh to say this but by the sounds of it you're better off without her - especially with a baby on the way- i wouldnt want my child living with someone who takes drugs (no offence).

well it sounds like you're settling down nicely, so as long as you can afford it then you should be okay. saying that, if not, you can receive benefits and there are a lot of support systems around to help you. many people, your age, younger and older too, have kept a baby without parental support, and although sometimes not ideal - they have managed perfectly.

im sure someone here can link you / give you contact numbers for support.

sorry i couldnt help more.x

 

[KaidensMummy]

probably sounds harsh to say this but by the sounds of it you're better off without her - especially with a baby on the way- i wouldnt want my child living with someone who takes drugs (no offence).

well it sounds like you're settling down nicely, so as long as you can afford it then you should be okay. saying that, if not, you can receive benefits and there are a lot of support systems around to help you. many people, your age, younger and older too, have kept a baby without parental support, and although sometimes not ideal - they have managed perfectly.

im sure someone here can link you / give you contact numbers for support.

sorry i couldnt help more.x

Exaclty what I was going to say...not somewhere I would want to live with my baby!! x