yamkins
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so if you don't know what went on go here >>>
https://www.babyandbump.com/bfp-announcements/130177-scary-way-know-your-pregnant.html
Anyway, I went to the ob/gyn, total disaster BS.
I went with my stepmom to say the least, We do NOT get along, she took me to "do me a favor" and apologize for, might i add, screaming at me when I was in the emergency room in pain. which I didn't mention because I usually don't like wasting my energy and time mentioning her anyway. So, she took us to her ob/gyn, and since my fiance looks like, well he looks only a few years older than me, they saw us as "teens" that were having an un-planned pregnancy. We had to abide by the rules of acting like we don't want a child for now, because my STEPMOM was there the whole time. He asked me what the papers said, which the hospital papers didn't say anything by the way, and I said that the nurse told me I was positive for pregnancy by an HCG level of four. which, as I researched yesterday was not even considered pregnant. FURIOUS I began to break down yesterday because I am in the blue and feel like the LAST one to know about everything especially since we have been trying. This has all been a nightmare in reality. The doctor was about to do the sonogram when I told him that my hcg was in that level and All he did was stick a finger up in there and feel me a bit then said "most likely a miscarriage" in the most monotone voice you can imagine and saying it directly to my stepmom. And with joy in her eyes, she began to smile and told me "told you so." By the way, it was because of this wicked woman that I moved out to be with the Love of my life, and she gave me problems because I moved out. to say the least, she didn't want to give me the cards for the insurance that I have, knowing very well that at the moment we need a little assistance with money since we just bought a car!
Anyway, they said that they were going to call HEtr instead of me, and I was almost about to bawl when he mentioned the MC by the way, then, he said well! "unless you want a baby, which I'm sure you don't, we are going to set up an appointment for you so you could come in to talk about birth control and what we could give you!"
TELL ME, WHO WANTS TO HEAR (in the most monotone and calm voice) THAT YOU ARE MOST LIKELY MISCARRYING?
to say the least, I'm bawling right now, and my m,other just said that they are going to take me to a more sensitive person who will definately let me know if EVERYTHING is ok instead of charging me for random things and telling me things like "oh, most likely miscarriage." I needed to vent..
thanks for taking time to read this!
https://www.babyandbump.com/bfp-announcements/130177-scary-way-know-your-pregnant.html
Anyway, I went to the ob/gyn, total disaster BS.
I went with my stepmom to say the least, We do NOT get along, she took me to "do me a favor" and apologize for, might i add, screaming at me when I was in the emergency room in pain. which I didn't mention because I usually don't like wasting my energy and time mentioning her anyway. So, she took us to her ob/gyn, and since my fiance looks like, well he looks only a few years older than me, they saw us as "teens" that were having an un-planned pregnancy. We had to abide by the rules of acting like we don't want a child for now, because my STEPMOM was there the whole time. He asked me what the papers said, which the hospital papers didn't say anything by the way, and I said that the nurse told me I was positive for pregnancy by an HCG level of four. which, as I researched yesterday was not even considered pregnant. FURIOUS I began to break down yesterday because I am in the blue and feel like the LAST one to know about everything especially since we have been trying. This has all been a nightmare in reality. The doctor was about to do the sonogram when I told him that my hcg was in that level and All he did was stick a finger up in there and feel me a bit then said "most likely a miscarriage" in the most monotone voice you can imagine and saying it directly to my stepmom. And with joy in her eyes, she began to smile and told me "told you so." By the way, it was because of this wicked woman that I moved out to be with the Love of my life, and she gave me problems because I moved out. to say the least, she didn't want to give me the cards for the insurance that I have, knowing very well that at the moment we need a little assistance with money since we just bought a car!
Anyway, they said that they were going to call HEtr instead of me, and I was almost about to bawl when he mentioned the MC by the way, then, he said well! "unless you want a baby, which I'm sure you don't, we are going to set up an appointment for you so you could come in to talk about birth control and what we could give you!"
TELL ME, WHO WANTS TO HEAR (in the most monotone and calm voice) THAT YOU ARE MOST LIKELY MISCARRYING?
to say the least, I'm bawling right now, and my m,other just said that they are going to take me to a more sensitive person who will definately let me know if EVERYTHING is ok instead of charging me for random things and telling me things like "oh, most likely miscarriage." I needed to vent..
thanks for taking time to read this!
Thats dreadful hun xxx
) and my health!!!! not...hers or anybodys! thank you I feel so much better, I'm glad people understand me and don't jusdge me for wanting this baby, even especially now! ugh, it's like they forced me to go to another appointment and I owe them 10 dollars for the blood work, just to check my blood type, not even to check for hcg. Do you know how many pregnancies are claimed miscarriages, when in fact theyre still surviving?? then they get the D&C and have an abortion when really the baby was wanted? 
